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17 Powerful Ways How to make your Man Happy (Proven Formula)

How to Make your Man Happy … FAST (and guaranteed to work)!

  • I think You’ll agree with me when I say: It’s REALLY hard to figure out what exactly a man wants in his relationship.
  • Do you sometimes feel like he is not happy at all, but might be actually unsatisfied in his relationship with you? Maybe he even VERBALIZES that?
  • You want to be the PERFECT WOMAN FOR YOUR MAN but you just can’t figure out what your man really wants from you and how to make your man happy?

 

Sounds familiar?

Men are relatively easy creatures when it comes to making them happy. image how to make your husband happy - man holding his wife

Sometimes it appears that all it would take is food, sex, and an understanding partner.

But then you realize – he might not be happy at all!

 

But here is the Deal:

You can actually very easily get everything there is to know on how to make your man happy by following these proven, insanely practical techniques (that ACTUALLY WORK)!

What it really boils down to is to know what makes and keeps him happy in the long run.

Follow our suggestions below and you’ll be off to a great start to make him a very happy man in his relationship with you!

 

So here we go:

    1. The Way to the Heart is through the Stomach

    2. Acceptance

    3. How to make any Husband feel Happy? Sex!

    4. Give him Space

    5. Activity of his Choice

    6. Stand by your Man

    7. Show Gratitude

    8. Make him Coffee in the Morning

    9. Want his Attention? Surprise him with a new Look of Yours!

    10. Be creative and spontaneous

    11. Gift him a Weekend Trip with his Buddies

    12. Have his Babies

    13. Encourage Him

    14. Let him pick the Movie

    15. Send the Kids away, or go away yourself

    16. Work outside the Home

    17. Set him up with a Man Cave

    18. Conclusion on How to make your Man Happy

    19. Why some Men are ’emotionally unavailable’

    20. Understand that he Loves you

 

1. The Way to the Heart is through the Stomach

As the saying goes! One way to ensure your man’s happy is cooking him his favorite dish.

Pay attention to what he likes to eat, and if necessary, learn to cook a few of his favorite dishes. Then surprise him with a home-cooked meal, and have the beer and wine ready!

Here is the best, though:

… as a finishing touch, the dessert could be you! He will love you endlessly for your innovative thinking!

 

 

2. Acceptance

Nothing makes him happier than a girlfriend or wife who can accept him the way he is, with all his faults and shortcomings.

Nagging at things you can’t and shouldn’t change about him won’t get you anywhere, but acknowledging his faults and accepting them for what they are, are a golden ticket to a man’s heart.

It’s easy: Accept him for what he is and the faults he, as a human, has. Refrain from nagging as much as possible. Instead, pick your battles.

 

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3. How to make your Husband Happy? SEX!

You ask any man how to make your husband happy, you will get one answer for sure. Sex! And lots of it, if you can!

Well, let’s say regularly anyway. That might actually be one of the best relationship advice for women out there.

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How can you actually use this?

Don’t let a week or longer go by without having some form of physical contact.

We need to remember that men are, and always will be, sexual beings, and hopefully so are you.

It’s a simple recipe for a road paved with success! Sex will make him happy in almost any situation.

And while at it, give him something to see: Don’t be shy and leave the lights on. Men love visuals (why do you think they love porn so much?).

Explore new horizons with each other, wear sexy lingerie, look him in the eyes…and don’t forget to be confident and playful in the process. He will thank you for it!

The take-away from this point here is that sex truly is an important part for him. On the flip-side, not taking care of this aspect of your relationship is one of the big reasons why men pull away from women.

It’s easy: You can even plan for for having sex, if you have to, but try to engage in it at least once a week. It could be a Saturday special!

 

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4. Give him Space

Just as you like having yours, you should give him alone-time and space to himself.

Do you enjoy your weekly yoga or monthly girl’s night out, without having him around?

If that is the case, then be sure that he will do, too!

 

Look, here is the deal:

Don’t be mad if he makes plans without you on occasion. Just let him be, and give him the time he needs. Apply the same at home, if space allows.

If you have a reading nook that you don’t like to share then give him one too!

It could be an office, a comfy chair in the living room, or an area where he can play a sport (or watch it, for that matter), or follow his hobby.

Of course if he starts hibernating in the man-cave you allow him in your house, it’s time for a wake-up call.

But otherwise, it won’t be harmful and a rather positive adjustment for both of you.

 

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5. Activity of his Choice

I can’t stress this enough, but one of the most important rules to making him happy is to do something with him that he likes, even if you don’t!

[ctt template=”5″ link=”Hk688″ via=”yes” ]One of the most important rules to making him happy is to do something with him that he likes, even if you don’t![/ctt]

 

And even more so, try to have fun with it. Nobody wants to hang out with a party-pooper, instead make the best of the situation, despite you not being into it.

He likes dart? Play a few rounds with him!

Take him to a football game, attend a rodeo, organize a paintball event with his friends, go to comedy club, or watch a movie of his choice.

It’s easy: Do whatever floats his boat and be cool about it! Now, I’m not suggesting to do it all the time, but do it often enough that he notices it, and knows to appreciate it.

[Check out these great ideas of fun things to do with your boyfriend!]

 

 

6. Stand by your Man

It’s one thing to disagree with your man privately, but when it comes to public outings, always back up your man, and never take someone else’s side, unless you’re morally obligated to do so.

Stand by your man in your marriage. Support him, be by his side, and be graceful at it. Do so and he will feel stronger than ever with you as his partner!

 

 

7. Show Gratitude

One of the biggest points in how to make him happy is to show gratitude.

 

This one is important:

You don’t have to fall on your knees to show it, but be aware of the effect compliments have on him. Tell him he’s a great guy and that you’re happy to be with him.

Thus, silence is not the answer, but communication and sincere appreciation certainly is.

It’s easy: Thank him for all the lovely things he does (be specific), and how he treats you. Whatever you’re grateful for, just tell him.

[Recommended Reading: How to make a Guy fall in Love with You?!]

 

8. Make him Coffee in the Morning

It’s a very small gesture, but can go a long way. If he’s a tea drinker, make him tea in the morning, and set it out for him. Ideally add some breakfast to it, and he’ll be overjoyed at your efforts to think about him in such a loving way.

It’s easy: Prepare his favorite drink in the morning, maybe fry some bacon and eggs, and wake him gently to the smell of it all!

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9. Want his Attention? Surprise him with a new Look of Yours!

Who would have thought, but men are visual creatures! He will love seeing a new look on you, whether it’s a new hair style, or new clothes that compliment your figure.  If he’s paying attention, he’ll notice the change and compliment you for it.

It’s easy: Go to the hairdresser, and find a nice outfit to get dressed up in. Add some make-up, and take him on an unforgettable date.

 

10. Be creative and spontaneous

I’m sure he won’t expect it, but being spontaneous and creative are key elements to keeping a relationship alive. Think of a fun activity for the weekend, and just get up and go. Kiss him when he least expects it, or make a sneaky move in the bedroom.

It’s easy: Think outside of the box, and let your ideas take you to new places. Try to experience life with him fully, by being in the moment.

 

image of smiling man being surprised

 

11. Gift him a Weekend Trip with his Buddies

Trust is essential, and if you trust your man, then there’s no harm done in getting him and his buddies together for a weekend excursion without the ladies. Plan it for his birthday, let’s say, and surprise him with it. The added bonus: You get a lazy weekend by yourself!

It’s easy: Call his best friends, arrange a date, and take care of the logistics. It doesn’t have to be Vegas, but pick a spot where they can have a good time together.

 

12. Have his Babies

That is, if you’ve talked about it, and decided to want a family.

It’s a life-changing experience to become a parent and will make him incredibly happy, once that little baby is born.

However, only if you want to have kids and you guys agree, of course. If that’s case, the news of your pregnancy, or your wish to conceive, will thrill him beyond words.

It’s easy: Talk it out, and start the baby-making process!

[Also read: What makes a man fall in love]

 

13. Encourage Him

Stroke his ego whenever he needs it, but also be his cheerleader for life. Offer him emotional support and constant encouragement for his undertakings, whether it’s personal or professional. He will feel as if he could conquer the world with your support.

It’s easy: Say what he needs to hear, cheer him on, and have a positive attitude in your approach.

 

 

14. Let him pick the Movie

It’s such a simple request, but often times the lady is the one picking out every movie the couple watches together.

Unfortunately, your kind of movie might not always be his kind of movie…So you have to compromise. Especially if you have regular movie nights, you can make him very happy by letting him pick the movie.

It’s easy: Alternate on who can pick the movie. That way he gets a turn all the time, and can introduce you to his favorite types of movies, while he also respectfully endures your choices.

 

If you don’t do anything else, consider this one:

15. Send the Kids away, or go away yourself

If you already have kids, then send them to a relatives’ house for a day or weekend!

That way you have some alone time to catch up on, and he will thank you for it.

Even better: Escape daily life, and go away on a romantic trip, instead of staying at home. Relight the flames and treat it as your second honeymoon, whether you have kids or not.

It’s easy: Make the necessary arrangements, call the grandparents, and explain to them why this is important. It’s best to do this when you have a wedding anniversary coming up. He will love the freedom!

[Recommended Reading: How to be a good girlfriend]

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16. Work outside the Home

If you’re a stay-at-home mom, then that’s wonderful. It’s a tough job to do, but unfortunately, the job is also unpaid, which is why you would make him very happy by being able to contribute some income to the household. It’s less pressure on him and more money for the family.

It’s easy: When the kids are old enough, get a part-time job, or try to work from home in some capacity, and make your own money. He’ll be happy to see it in your guys’ bank account, and the extra opportunities it allows the family to partake in (bigger vacations, higher education for the kids etc.).

 

17. Set him up with a Man Cave

Oh boy, he’ll be in for a treat! It’s different for every man, but whatever his interests are, incorporate them into his man cave and surprise him with it. He’ll know that you understand him, and it will make him joyful to have his own space in the house.

It’s easy: Figure out a place, and make it his! Understand his desire to have alone time and that it’s perfectly normal.

 

 

Bottom line?

18. Conclusion on How to make your Man Happy

Making a man feel happy is really not that hard, after all. Follow above rules and you will be way on your way.

Remember that it is often the little things that will catch his attention. Hence, you do not have to go overboard as far as applying every single idea and tip we shared with you, above.

Instead, it might mean already a lot to him to show him gratitude here and there, or engage in the activity of his choice every other weekend, if that is something you usually would not have done in the past.

Also remember that genuinely caring and being affectionate is key for any healthy relationship and will certainly also help to make your man feel happy and appreciated in his relationship with you.

Making your man happy is a task for the everyday life.

Sometimes it might be the small things that cheer him up, such as bringing him a cup of coffee to his chair, and other times you might have to take out the big weapons in order to make him happy, like buying him tickets to go see his favorite sports team.

Whatever it is, get to know your man and his wants, and aim to make him the happiest guy on the planet!

Obviously, and this should go without saying, he’ll have to do the same in return to deserve your love, efforts, and unlimited amount of attention.

[Also Read: How to make him Smile]

 

But how about the “Emotionally unavailable” man?

19. Why some Men are ‘emotionally unavailable’

It happens very often: women are dating men and are flat out fascinated with the way he looks, acts, and makes her feel great about herself.

Yet, down the road, unfortunately also very often after they end up getting married to each other, women realize that her partner is, or has become, what is commonly described as “emotionally unavailable”.

It is easy to feel rejected when not being able to get close to the person you love.

Men tend by nature to be much more limited and restricted in sharing their emotions, than women. Read this article here on ideas what to talk about with a guy to get him more engaged with you.

A great way to communicate with a man can also be through text messaging, as this allows him to have more personal space to feel comfortable.

For example, here are some great ideas for some texts to make him smile and feel good about the both of you.

 

smiling man sharing his happyness about his partner

 

20. Understand that he Loves you

Often, men see being emotional as a sign of weakness. Unfortunately, society supports this superficial view and classification of how men “should be” or “should behave” as a stereotype.

On top of that, the sexual revolution of women has changed the classical understanding of the different roles both women and men have historically taken in their relationships.

Men historically were asked to be the strong, the persevering partner.

Now we ask them to change and emotionally open up to us, we ask them to make themselves vulnerable by sharing their concerns, fears, their hopes and desires. This is simply a situation men are often not very comfortable with.

Remember that understanding how to make him happy is important for having a healthy relationship; yet, it will not necessarily make your man more emotionally available to you.

Do not take this the wrong way; being emotionally unavailable might have – in his mind – absolutely nothing to do with him being truly in love with you and deeply caring for you.

 

So where do you start?

How do you get a man to love you the way you want to be loved and cherished?

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17 Easy Ways How to make Him Worry about Losing You (FAST!)

Make Him Worry about Losing You … FAST (and psychologically proven)!

  • Have you ever felt like you could “disappear” – and he wouldn’t even notice?
  • Do you feel like you are completely underappreciated?
  • Wouldn’t it be nice to make him actually worry about the relationship? And even better – make him worry that he might be losing YOU?

 

Sounds familiar?

He was probably made to believe that you will stick around no matter what, so what is there to be afraid of?

You probably tolerated countless offenses that his abnormal behavior now seems acceptable, at least, in his eyes.

 

But here is the Deal:

It turns out you can dramatically increase his interest in you and your relationship by following these proven, insanely practical techniques (that ACTUALLY WORK)!

image of man with woman her wondering how to make him worry about losing you

I’ll show you the best (and updated) tips and tricks on How to make a Guy realize he losing you!

Always keep in mind that an open conversation with him about your feelings are preferred over infusing any kind of fear of loosing you, in him.

After all, you should always strive for a happy, healthy relationship for both, you and him.


So here we go:

    1. Remind him that Your Life was already full and rewarding even before You met him

    2. Quit being a nice Girl and Instantly get 100% of his Attention!

    3. Be firm with Your Words

    4. Stop being available at his Disposal and Make him Crave You like Crazy!

    5. Spend more Time alone with Your Friends

    6. Make Plans without him

    7. Reduce small talk when You’re home together

    8. Be less cuddly towards him

    9. State your Opinions honestly in a Disagreement

    10. Follow through with Your Goals

    11. Get a better paying Job

    12. Continue Your Education

    13. Travel alone

    14. Tell him about newly made Friends of Yours

    15. Discontinue Talk about Marriage and Kids

    16. Set up a Space for Yourself at Home

    17. Surprising Things Men worry about in Relationships

 

Note that the quickest way to a dysfunctional relationship is tolerating abuses and ignoring the set of standards brought by self-love that you once held high.

A toxic relationship is unhealthy because it doesn’t seem so bad at first; by the time you realize where you are, you are already in pretty deep.

Clinician and mental health writer, Kristen Fuller, believes that it’s important to recognize a toxic relationship (i.e. one where you are being physically or verbally abused) and to get out of it immediately.

The same hold true for a relationship where you have to repeatedly ask yourself why do men cheat and lie as you constantly feel your partner might be dishonest to you.

Also read: How to let go of someone you Love


So what does that actually mean?

Before your relationship goes down the hill, you need to establish or regain the balance of giving and taking.

While it’s impossible for all your needs to be met by a single person, the man you love must know how to treat you with love and respect at all times, and you should do the same to him.

A man who is afraid of losing you will not deliberately do things to hurt you. Sometimes you need to shake things up a bit to make it right.

You wonder how to make him realize your value?

Here’s to finding and maintaining the balance in your relationship.

 

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1. Remind him that Your Life was already full and rewarding even before You met him

By reminding, I don’t mean constant nagging that you had a better life with your ex once upon a time. It doesn’t have to be verbal, either. You just need to show him that you’re still the same interesting girl when he first met you.

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Keep your friends, hobbies, and interests – do not lose that burning fire within you.

Your passion to achieve your goals and improve yourself is probably one of the things that attracted him to you. It’s a mistake to give up your unique self just to fit into someone’s life.

 


2. Quit being a nice Girl
and Instantly get 100% of his Attention!

There is nothing wrong about being a nice girl, but there’s a thin line that separates genuinely kind and agreeable people to a doormat. During the first few months in a new relationship, your head is in the clouds.

You want to do everything to make the man of your dreams happy, often at the expense of your own convenience and pleasure. This kind of behavior drives a man to be lazy.


Why is that so important?

If you work double-time to make the relationship work, he’s left with nothing else to do. It will soon backfire because he will most likely blame his shortcomings on you. He’ll whine about feeling “suffocated” when all you did was being a “nice” girlfriend.

So, quit cleaning his apartment every weekend. Stop cooking for him when you’re together. You are his partner, not his mother. Unless that’s what you want him to see in you.

 

The easy way: How to make a Guy realize he losing You!

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3. Be firm with Your Words

You still wonder how to make him worry about losing you? Be firm with your words! Before we enter a relationship, we are already armed with a set of standards – a list of what we can and cannot tolerate. These deal breakers are important. It’s a sign that you are looking after your well-being.

It means you are confident and you love yourself enough not to tolerate abuses or trespasses from other people. But somewhere along the way, we forget about these deal breakers or ignore them altogether for the sake of compromise.


The truth is:

Being forgiving is definitely not a bad trait, but there should be a limit to the number of “I’m sorry” you can accept.

If you tell your man you can never tolerate excessive drinking, but welcome him with open arms the next day he drops in your apartment with a bunch of flowers in hand – you’re sending him a signal that he can disregard your feelings anytime.

Stick with your standards and be firm with your words.

 

infographic with tips on how to make a guy realize he losing you


4. Stop being available at his Disposal
and Make him Crave You like Crazy!

Again, you are neither his mother nor his therapist. You have your own life to worry about, own problems to deal with.

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Though it’s equally important to share happy moments and lift each other up in challenging situations, you have no obligation to be available for him 24/7.


No matter how wonderful he is, he must know that you are not born to satisfy his every whim.

 

Once a man realizes that he can lose you if he doesn’t play it right, he’ll be the one to look for ways to satisfy you and keep you interested in the relationship, and you in turn won’t have to worry any longer about why men lose interest in relationships.

 

5. Spend more Time alone with Your Friends

Have dinner or drinks with your friends after work, or plan a spa day.

Let him know what you’re up to, but don’t let him try to change your plans. If he’s a keeper, he won’t try to do that, and tell you to have fun.

However, the more you do it, the more he’ll worry.

It’s easy: Be less available and show that him that your time is also wanted by others.

[Suggested Reading: How to save your marriage from divorce]

 

6. Make Plans without him

Join a book club, attend a gallery opening or go see a show- and do it all without him!

Whenever he’s working, make plans for yourself and don’t feel guilty about it.

He’ll realize you won’t stop living because of his unavailability, and it will give him something to think about.

It’s easy: Partake in your own interests, and live your life fully. Let him see that you don’t mind doing things on your own.

 

sleepless man in bed worrying about his relationship

 

7. Reduce small talk when You’re home together

Talk less, and let him start the conversations, especially if you’re the one normally starting to talk.

Let him figure out what to say and how to say it (if his words don’t fail him).

It’s easy: Be less talkative and he will develop a need to hear your voice. Sometimes less is more!

[Also read: How to make him want you]

 

8. Be less cuddly towards him

He’ll be surprised and definitely worry about losing you, if you suddenly become more distanced.

It’s time for him to get a taste of his medicine. If he normally doesn’t like cuddling, he’ll come around.

It’s easy: Act like you don’t need cuddles (at least temporarily), spread yourself on the couch, and let him come to you.

 

9. State your Opinions honestly in a Disagreement

Don’t back down during a fight or argument. It’s important for you to stand your own grounds and be o.k. with disagreeing.

He’ll respect you for it, and if he worries about losing you due to disagreements, let him think that for a while.

It’s easy: Stay true to your beliefs and don’t be shy or scared to disagree. Every relationship needs to have their differences.

 

 

10. Follow through with Your Goals

Despite of what he says or believe, follow through with your goals and aspirations.

Never let him interfere with any of your dreams, and pursue it even harder if he tries! He’ll see that you’re unstoppable.

It’s easy: Set goals first, and follow the steps accordingly. Stay ambitious and be confident about succeeding in front of him.

 

11. Get a better paying Job

If the chance arises, aim for a better paid job and show him what you’re capable of!

It might sound old-fashioned, but many men, sadly, still want to be the one earning more.

By you earning your financial independence, he’ll know that you can leave at any time, and won’t stay around for money reasons.

It’s easy: Work hard and be the best you can be at your job. It doesn’t matter where or as what, the reward will come eventually and you can show him how proud you are.

[Also read: How to make your boyfriend love you more]

 

12. Continue Your Education

Education is a main key for becoming aware of what you deserve, and what you don’t.

It opens your eyes to new horizons and he might think twice about doing something silly or not treating you the right way, if he realizes that you know what else is out there in the world.

And that’s exactly what education does for someone.

It’s easy: Take classes (even if it doesn’t lead to a higher degree) and keep learning. He’ll find your smart wits irresistible and will try harder not to lose you.

[ctt template=”5″ link=”t4ica” via=”yes” ]Take classes (even if it doesn’t lead to a higher degree) and keep learning. He’ll find your smart wits irresistible and will try harder not to lose you.[/ctt]

 

13. Travel alone

Take a break from it all, and tell him you need time to meditate and reflect, without anyone there.

He’ll worry a bit, for sure, but will give you the space you need, if he loves you.

It’s easy: Pack a bag, go away, and let him spend time alone. He will wonder what you have to reflect on!

 

 

14. Tell him about newly made Friends of Yours

Talk about the people in your life, especially new ones, and make him understand that you are sociable and capable of meeting new people.

This will worry him that you might meet someone better than him.

Its’ easy: Tell him about a newly made male friend and what’s so nice about him. He’ll nod his head, but guys never like to hear that!

 

15. Discontinue Talk about Marriage and Kids

If you did before, try to seem disinterested in those topics for a while, and don’t mention it. He’ll wonder what has changed!

Its’ easy: Don’t talk about kids and marriage! Pretend as if you never think about it anymore.

 

16. Set up a Space for Yourself at Home

If space allows, create a separate room or corner for yourself, and tell him about your need for privacy. He might ponder on that for a bit!

It’s easy: Distance yourself from him in a healthy way, and show him that you’re a strong, independent woman.  Give him reasons to miss you and he will!

 

 

17. Surprising Things Men worry about in Relationships

Let’s turn at looking closer at the psyche of a man, for a moment. Women in general are usually very surprised that men, at least most of them, are inherently insecure about their relationships, by default.

One of the biggest insecurities men carry when it comes to their relationships with women is closely related to losing their partner. Hence, men very often are very worried about not being an adequate partner for their woman, be it for reasons of lack of money, their appearance, or their sexual performance.

It is therefore not uncommon to see jealous behavior in men, not only as you may have expected in women.

 

But what does that mean?

A man is inherently wired in his DNA to provide for you and his family.

Men want to please you. The slightest reason why men might feel they do not measure up against any of his male pears then results in him worrying about you not being satisfied with your relationship.

Men then start to worry about losing women, they become insecure, controlling, and jealous.

Knowing now that men are as insecure as women are, when it comes to losing their partners in relationships, reflect on above-mentioned ways of potentially how to make him worry about losing you.

Then remind yourself that open communication about any problems you may see in your relationship should be the first, the preferred way to work towards a better relationship.

Many women who wonder how to be a better girlfriend therefore actually refrain from trying to amplify their partner’s concerns about losing her in the relationship.

 

Bottom line?

In any relationship, there comes a point when you feel less appreciated, taken for granted, or simply aren’t sure if he loves you the same way that you love him.

All of that is normal and perfectly o.k., but at the same time, it helps if you make him a little nervous and show him an alternative universe without you in it.

Make him worry a bit and show him that you can handle yourself, and don’t need him in your life in order to function as a human being.

It will get him thinking that you’re not just “there” all the time, but that he also has to make an effort to keep you by his side.

 

So where do you start?

How do you get a man to love you the way you want to be loved and cherished?

Download Our Exclusive FREE Ebook To Find Out…

How to make a Guy realize He losing you!

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17 TOP Ways How to Get a Guy to notice You (instantly!)

How to get a Guy to notice you, fast and lasting

  • Have you ever felt like you could “disappear” – and he wouldn’t even notice?
  • Do you feel like you are completely invisible to him, no matter how hard you try?
  • Wouldn’t it be nice to make him actually REALLY NOTICE YOU as the special girl and woman you are? And even better – make a real, lasting impression on him such that he won’t forget about YOU?

 

Sounds familiar?

You might be surrounded by other smart and beautiful women, so it is really hard for you to stick out of the crowd and get him to even realize you.

You might sometimes even feel you will never really get the attention from him you are craving for … let alone go on a date with him … or more!

 

Here is the good News:

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It turns out you can make him INSTANTLY NOTICE YOU and make a lasting impression on him by following these proven, highly-practical techniques (that ACTUALLY WORK)!

I’ll show you the best (and newest!) Tips and Tricks on How to get Guy to notice you, instantly!

 

So here we go:

      1. The 10% Investment Method to get a Guy to notice You

      2. Wittiness will make Him notice You right away!

      3. Make Him laugh

      4. Get His Attentions with Your Introverted Personality

      5. A Stunning Appearance always gets a Guy’s Attention

      6. Dress Timelessly

      7. Be Your own beautiful Self

      8. He’ll notice when You Keep Eye Contact

      9. Needing Help

      10. Get His Attention by an Invitation to a private House Party

      11. Dancing is a HUGE Attention-getter for Guys!

      12. Make Yourself super – approachable by Going out Solo

      13. Hang around His Neighborhood

      14. Let Him catch You alone and have his undivided Attention!

      15. Smell divine and get him to immediately notice You!

      16. What Guys really notice about your Looks

 

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1. The 10% Investment Method to get a Guy to notice You

Always remember the most important rule in understanding how to get a man’s attention: small, additional efforts go a long way, which is what the 10% investment method is referring to.

Sit next to him at a bar, ask him a question (which direction to walk in etc.), or compliment him on a clothing item or accessory that he’s wearing.

 

The truth is:

Just little things that can lead to a conversation and the exchange of names and numbers!

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2. Wittiness will make Him notice You right away!

Key to understanding men is to know that guys aren’t big talkers, but they do listen, and you will definitely stand out if you’re in a group and throw in a smart, witty comment to everyone’s surprise.

 

Here is how that works:

He will wonder who that person is, and without a doubt notice you and your intellect. Ideally, make the comment short, but entertaining for everyone!

It’s easy: Participate and listen to your friends conversations; then throw in your own thought.

This also works if you’re alone: You can make the comment to a bartender or whoever is around and sociable enough to respond to it.

[Also read: How to make a guy fall in Love with you]

 

3. Make Him laugh

Guys love a good laugh, and whoever achieves that as a stranger will win their interest immediately.

Not everyone shares the same kind of humor, so it’s quite special when he find a person who makes him laugh on the spot, and finds the same things funny as he does.

It’s easy: Learn about him and his personality, and think of a funny remark when the time comes.

Maybe, if you have mutual friends, they can give you a hint on what he finds hilarious and you can run with the ball!

 

[Also read: How to make a Guy really like you]

 

4. Get His Attentions with Your Introverted Personality

Now, this is the polar opposite from throwing in remarks and making funny jokes, but it actually has the same effect in most cases.

That is, if you’re an introvert and stay more in the background, it gives off a mysterious vibe, and he’ll be intrigued by your quiet composure just the same as if you were outgoing, if not even more.

 

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This one is important:

Remember, still waters are deep! And men know that too well, and appreciate it more than you might think.

It’s easy: Don’t change who you are. If you’re shy and prefer listening over talking, then do exactly that.

He will still notice you and approach you, if he’s single, and shows sincere interest.

[Also read: How to tell if a Guy really likes You]

 

5. A Stunning Appearance always gets a Guy’s Attention

This only goes so far, and there is more to keeping him keen than looks, but the initial first look can make or break it.

Especially if you’re dressed rather casually on a day-to-day basis, you will get him to notice you by looking fabulous for a night out.

Make it count! Set aside your best-fitting outfit; one which compliments your figure, assemble your hair and do your make-up – voila! The transformation is complete.

It’s easy: Stay true to yourself, but make yourself better looking for a special occasion when you know he’ll be there.

Bring out the big guns and show him what you’ve got!

6. Dress Timelessly

I can confirm from my own personal experience that guys don’t usually dig the latest fashion trends for women, and are more attracted to timeless clothing pieces, such as a little black dress, jeans and sneakers, or a skirt with boots, just to name a few classic examples.

So dressing classy and timelessly is one of the most surefire ways to get his attention.

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It’s easy:

Less colorful and accessorized, and the more he notices your simple, but still cool-looking style.

This doesn’t mean you should change your wardrobe completely, but should serve as a suggestion on how to make him notice you more than he otherwise would, at least in most cases.

By the way, wearing a dress he’s really into is a good idea not only when trying to figure out how to get a guy to ask you out but also, down the road, when wondering how to make a guy really fall for you.

There is simply no denial, the way you dress matters a lot to guys!

 

 

7. Be Your own beautiful Self

The fastest way to get his attention? 

It also always starts with the looks!

Don’t necessarily plan for extra time in the bathroom, but do make an effort to look good – real good!

Let your hair shine, put a little bit of make-up on to cover up any unevenness and accentuate your best facial feature, which could be your lips, eyes, cheeks etc.

Make it count for when you leave the house and make sure he sees you with it.

Every woman is beautiful in her own way, but we can do some things to highlight it and make it stand out more. He’ll notice, because how could he not?

 

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8. He’ll notice when You Keep Eye Contact

I still need to say it, since in the 21st century humankind seems to be buried in their smart phones.

The unfortunate truth is that people, due to that, often lack the ability to hold eye contact with someone, which is of utmost importance!

He will see that you’re different if you look him in the eyes and can hold a gaze for a bit.

I don’t mean to say “stare at him”, but make sure that he knows you’re looking at him, that is a simple way of making sure he gets to notice you.

Especially across a room, you can send him coy looks, look away, then look again… he’ll know what to do with it, if he’s interested in a chat with you.

It shows him that you want to be talked to, and are approachable. Making and keeping eye contact with him can truly make you appear irresistible to men.

 

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9. Needing Help

This is a cliché-scenario, but if you’re in need of help, and show it, then he’ll notice you and will probably offer his help.

You could even be direct and ask him a question, but it has to be something that matters and to which you really need an answer.

Maybe ask for a specific direction? Don’t make it obvious that you want to get his attention.

It’s easy: Think of something you actually need help with, and express it in his presence.

If he’s a computer nerd, tell him about your recent issues with your laptop, and he’ll come to the rescue!

 

10. Get His Attention by an Invitation to a private House Party

Anyone who’s ever thrown a party knows that your guests will remember the host (you!), regardless even of the outcome of the party.

If you have sufficient space, throw a birthday- or Halloween party, and invite him.

 

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He won’t forget you easily, especially if you give him special attention at the party and make an effort to get to know him.

He’ll appreciate the gesture and will know you for your kindness towards friends and strangers alike.

It’s easy: Invite a small group of people, and add some new friends into the mixture, which then include him.

Either get him the invite yourself, depending on your standing, or tell a friend to bring him along.

 

11. Dancing is a HUGE Attention-getter for Guys!

Believe it or not, but dancing is an eye-catcher!

When a girl knows how to move, his thoughts might wander elsewhere, so needless to say, he’ll notice you!

That is if you can dance a little! It doesn’t take much, and I’m not talking about whole choreographics, but simple, sensual moves to easy- to- dance-to songs.

This can be at the above mentioned party, a club, or even in a completely unexpected location where music is being played. Wedding perhaps?

It’s easy: Learn to be in tune with your body, and show him some of your moves, when the chance arises.

Please remember: Dancing doesn’t require an awesome looking body, but only asks for rhythm and a sense of sensuality.

[Also read: How to make a Guy fall for You]

 

12. Make Yourself super – approachable by Going out Solo

This might not be the most comfortable situation for some women, but if you’re going out alone, your chances are way higher to be noticed than if you travel in a pack.

That’s a true fact!

If it’s first time, go slow and easy.

Have dinner at a restaurant where single people eat all the time, and bring a book, in case you get nervous. Reading can also be a good conversation starter, especially if you’re sitting at the bar.

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The truth is:

Guys will notice a solo lady instantly and feel much more comfortable approaching you alone.

Their fear is subdued and you get the attention you were looking for. If it’s a specific guy you’re interested in, find out where he hangs out and happen to just be there one day- alone!

It’s easy: Check out different locations, take a plunge, and plan a solo adventure. You won’t regret it!

 

13. Hang around His Neighborhood

Let me rephrase this: Don’t stalk him, but if you like seeing the guy, you’re probably already hanging around the same areas, anyway.

So why not see if you can “accidentally” be at the same place, at the same time?

 

Here is How it’s done:

Let’s say during lunch, you might bump into each other at the cafeteria, right?

He will see you more often and therefore become familiar with your face.

Does he like a specific bar that he hangs out at? Take a friend with you and grab a drink there.

It’s easy: If you have mutual friends, you can ask them about his hangout spots and make a trip there once or twice, when you know he’s going to be there as well. 

New environment, new shot at love!

 

14. Let Him catch You alone and have his undivided Attention!

Depending on which category you belong to, you might be more comfortable to always have someone by your side when going out or taking breaks at work or school.

But this can be quite off-putting for guys, since they don’t want to meet your friend or even group of friends, but you.

If you want him to notice you more, you need to give him an opportunity to catch you alone.

Whether it’s reading a book during your break, making notes of some sorts, or drawing something, he will love finding you alone.

 

Here is why it works!

This allows him to talk to you privately, and at the same time provides him with an easy conservation starter on what you’re doing or reading.

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15. Smell divine and get him to immediately notice You!

Ultimately, maybe the best way for a guy to notice you is your smell, hoping that you’ll be in near enough proximity to him.

A great smell causes guys to go nuts over! He will be more than intrigued to find out what that smell is and where it’s coming from! With this alone you’ll get a big portion of his attention.

The choice of smell is yours, of course! But don’t let it be too strong, and don’t make the mistake of overusing it.

A light scent of a body cream or perfume will do just fine. It is a stereotype, but it is also true: your looks and the way you present yourself, the way you dress up, and also what perfume you wear, are definitely on the top list of items to keep in mind when wondering how to get a guy to notice you.

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16. What Guys really notice about your Looks

There are a few things guys usually notice right away about a girl. When trying to get his attention, it can come in very handy to know what he is focused on. Here are the top three things guys notice the first about a girl, so pay attention to them!

  • Your Smile

This one does not come at a surprise. A winning smile can be, well, winning! So make sure the guy of your interest sees your most beautiful smile. It conveys confidence and shows him that you are glad to see him; both work as perfect icebreakers and make you look approachable to him.

  • Your Eyes

Close to 70% of all men asked, mention that the eyes of a woman is something they notice first. This might actually be hard-wired into their DNA; psychologists agree that our eyes can share a lot about our personality. What does that mean for you? Make sure to emphasize your eyes, accordingly by putting on some nice eye-makeup!

  • Your overall Attitude and Confidence

Maybe this one comes at a surprise to some of you girls out there, but a positive, energetic attitude that is carried by a lot of confidence is the sexiest thing out there to guys. That is great news, as it does not require anything on your behalf that would take time or cost you money. So how to get a guy to notice you? Simply put on a confident smile, carry yourself assertively, and show a good, positive attitude!

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15 Easy Ways How to be a better Girlfriend (Works 100%)

Easy Ways How to be a better Girlfriend (psychologically proven)

Do you wonder sometimes how to be a better girlfriend to him? A woman who values her romantic relationship knows that it is dynamic. Our relationships change continuously, whether we like it or not.

Change also comes from within and constant improvement is the key in keeping the love alive. You may be dating a man who does not openly say what he wants from the relationship – well, most men would not even tell you, even if you ask.

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You are probably here because you care about your partner, so much so that you aspire to become a better girlfriend. Yet, your partner’s idea of what a great girlfriend is can be different from what you think.

I’m sure you’re already a fantastic girlfriend, but do you see room for improvements?

I believe we can all do a little better at times, and, as we know, being a girlfriend isn’t always easy, and takes work.

We’re no mind-readers, but there are certain things we can do to be an even better girlfriend.

This doesn’t mean that we have to change ourselves, or turn our own life upside down, but it requires patience, understanding, and attention to detail.

Then, with the following tips, he’ll appreciate and love you even more than before and you’re well on your way to tremendously improving your relationship.

    1. Stay independent

    2. Learn how to handle Conflicts better

    3. Be a better Girlfriend by Respecting his Space

    4. Stop snooping

    5. More Support, less Criticism

    6. Be kind to each other

    7. Help Him where it’s needed

    8. Treat His Family and Friends with Respect

    9. Surprise Him on Occasion

    10. Dress stunningly for Your weekly Date-Night

    11. Be the best Girlfriend by letting Him take charge during Sex

    12. Stroke His Ego

    13. Trust Him unconditionally

    14. A simple “I love You”

    15. How to be the best Girlfriend in a long-term Relationship

1. Stay independent

You wonder how to be the perfect girlfriend to him? Then learn to understand that independence is important not only for you as a woman, but also to your relationship with your man. Independence is attractive, whether you’re a man or a woman.

Independence also teaches how to build trust in a relationship. An independent woman can function on her own, doesn’t focus all her attention and energy to one man, and has a host of interests and commitments that keeps her busy.

She can be happy in and out of a romantic relationship. Independent girlfriends are not clingy because they are self-reliant; they don’t depend on their boyfriends to make them happy.

One of the biggest mistakes people in a relationship make is seeking another person to complete them, and often end up blaming that person for their unhappiness.

It’s easy: Remind yourself of the independent person you are. Have your own hobbies, (girl-)friends and interest. You will be much more interesting to him that way!

Recommended Reading: The best ways to how to keep a man interested in you

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2. Learn how to handle Conflicts better

People in stressful relationships handle conflicts poorly.

According to marriage expert, Susan Heitler, Ph.D, couples who work together in solving their problems constructively have stronger relationships, and it even cuts their risk for stress-related diseases.

Ironing out daily issues can easily turn into a battle of who’s right and who’s wrong.

A great girlfriend knows that it’s more important to resolve the issue at hand, and to come up with a solution that works for both parties.

Your guy would appreciate how mature you are in handling your relationship problems. In return, he will be inclined to reciprocate by coming up with solutions himself.

Therefore, if you truly want to understand  how to keep a man happy, start by avoiding the following behavior during conflicts:

      • leaving passive-aggressive notes
      • giving him the silent treatment or cold shoulder
      • name calling
      • blaming the other person
      • yelling or cussing

It’s easy: Learn to chose your battles! Not every little thing that’s annoying to you is worthwhile arguing over, or even mentioning it. Learn to let things go a little. Sport and even breathing exercises can help with that.

3. Be a better Girlfriend by Respecting his Space

When a woman hears the word “space” in the relationship, she often thinks it’s a sign that the relationship is going off-track. In reality, maintaining your own personal space is a sign of a healthy relationship.

Because men thrive in an environment where they can spend fun times with their peers and share ideas with them, while women prefer a constant connection with their significant other – conflicts often arise.

You may feel neglected if your man asks for a Netflix binge with friends where you are not included. However, an important part of understanding how to be the best girlfriend is to learn that maintaining attachments with other people is also important to your well-being.

So, let the boys have their man cave for themselves. After all, you still need to announce your latest matte lipstick obsession with your girl squad.

How to be the perfect Girlfriend … the easy Way!

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4. Stop snooping

The science of perception has long concluded that we often see what we actively seek. If you are the kind of girlfriend who routinely sneaks in to check your boyfriend’s phone – looking for ‘sexts’ and unusual phone calls – you are more likely to misjudge your guy’s behavior more than seeing it for what it actually is.

Snooping is also a breach of someone’s right to privacy.

If your man is doing something that is bothering you, open up and tell him what’s on your mind, instead of trying to guess the password to his Facebook account or reading his phone messages without his permission.

It’s easy: Just don’t do it! When tempted, remind yourself that it may simply be your mind playing tricks with you and also remind yourself of the possible negative effects it can have. Simply refrain from snooping!

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5. More Support, less Criticism

You wonder how to be the perfect girlfriend? To truly be a better girlfriend, give him more support and less criticism!

Sometimes you might tend to forget that your boyfriend has his own mother, and as such does not need another mouth to bombard him with unsolicited advice.

Sure, you only want what’s best for him, but you have to make sure that you don’t sound like you’re criticizing his every move.

Criticism is toxic to a relationship; ask yourself if you want to be around someone who always magnifies your flaws.

Any man hates the feeling of being devalued, according to Steven Stosny, Ph.D., author of One Thing that Will Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship.

There are many ways to show concern without being too critical. Genuine concern over your boyfriend’s behavior focuses on improvement and not on belittling his personality.

It is not coercive or controlling. If you find yourself punishing or withdrawing affection when your boyfriend fails to do what you want, you are being critical.

It’s easy: Remember that criticism can be highly toxic to a relationship. The benefits of constantly criticizing your boyfriend will definitely be out-weight by this toxicity. Do not criticize him, unless absolutely necessary.

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6. Be kind to each other

Psychologists John and Julie Gottman have studied thousands of couples to determine the ingredients to a successful relationship.

The study, spanning over four decades, found that couples in happy and long-lasting relationships are kind and generous to each other.

How you treat your partner is a great predictor of how strong your relationship will be.

Being kind is more than just being nice. It is knowing when to give support and encouragement despite feeling stressed and distracted.

It is trying to get involved in your boyfriend’s hobbies and interests – even though it’s not your cup of tea.

So – if you want to start right away and work on understanding how to be a better girlfriend, be kind to the man of your choice!

It’s easy: Simply remind yourself of the beginnings of your relationship. Most likely you were very kind to him back then. Remind yourself of the many good reasons to be kind to him now as well.

 

7. Help Him where it’s needed

Men can get overwhelmed when they have to do everything themselves. A great way for you to show him your love and support is by lending a helping hand.

Is there anything that needs to be done, for which he can’t make time?

Maybe you can do it for him.

Even just offering your help will make a difference! An important task is better not to be postponed, and if it’s something dear to him, you might want to roll up your sleeves and get to work alongside him.

It’s easy: Check out what he needs and help. Write a to-do list if needed, and cross some things off, one by one.

 

8. Treat His Family and Friends with Respect

Friends and family are extremely important to get along with, if you want to stay with someone long-term.

One can only hope that they will treat you with the same respect that you should give them, in which case it’s a perfect match.

You should always start out with respect for anyone who’s a big part of his life, and treat them with kindness, dignity and affection.

It’s easy: Ask lots of questions about him and his childhood, which indicates sincere interest, and make sure that everyone feels comfortable and respected when they’re in your presence (as much as this can be in your control).

 

9. Surprise Him on Occasion

You will earn the “girlfriend of the year” award, if you sneak in a surprise here or there!

Our day-to–day functions can get boring and monotone, so he’ll love it when you plan a trip for an anniversary, or get tickets for a show and surprise him with it.

It can also be something much simpler, like cooking his favorite meal when he gets home, and giving him an unexpected massage after a long day’s work.

Everyone likes surprises that will get them out of their head and make them stop stressing for a while.

It’s easy: Surprise him regularly, and make it count! Think about what he would like, and reward him by giving him something that is not part of the daily routine.

 

10. Dress stunningly for Your weekly Date-Night

Obviously you don’t have to dress sexy in order to be noticed by him – he loves you regardless, but he will also be pleasantly surprised to see you in a hot outfit for the night!

As mentioned above, you should make an effort to have date-nights weekly, since this is your chance as a couple to bond and spend quality-time together.

When you go, get your nicest outfit from the closet and transform yourself as if you’d be going on a first date with him. He’ll notice, and absolutely love it!

It’s easy: Make plans with him, put some make-up on, and get your sexy ready for the evening.

 

11. Be the best Girlfriend by letting Him take charge during Sex

Sex is all about two people connecting and enjoying each other, and your satisfaction is equally important than his.

However, he’ll love to hear you say that he should take charge or pick what you’re going to do this time.

This doesn’t mean that you won’t like it, but only that you let him do the picking and taking control for once of the situation.

Even if you’re normally more dominant, for instance, give him that feeling of being the alpha male sometimes.

It’s easy: It means no work for you, so just let him take you wherever he wants you guys to go, and enjoy the ride. You might discover a new thing or two!

 

12. Stroke His Ego

This is cliché, yes, but still very relevant to today’s men.

Even the most modern of all guys will like to be complimented, cared for, and told how awesome he is.

You don’t have to do it every day, but the occasional “wow, you’re the smartest, babe” or “God, could you get any more delicious?” will make you stand out as a better girlfriend.

Be supportive and tell him directly whenever he does or says something great.

It’s easy: At times, talk to him like you would to a child (I know, but its true!): You’re doing great, keep going! You’ll motivate him and make him feel almighty.

 

13. Trust Him unconditionally

This one is a no-brainer, unless you have a solid reason to be suspicious.

Otherwise, trust him and don’t drive him away with unnecessary moments of jealousy.  Women tend to overreact sometimes, and get jealous quickly.

That’s ok if he’s acting weird and secretive, but don’t confront him about anything, or make a scene if he gives you no reason to doubt him.

Then all you do is put a wedge between you and your man.

Despite previous cheating that you might have experienced with other men, give him a chance to show you that not all men are the same.

It’s easy: Have some faith and trust him!

 

14. A simple “I love You”

Often times we overlook the smallest things, like saying “I love you”.

We assume that our partner knows it, especially after being together for a long time, so at times we forget to say it, or simply don’t bother with it anymore.

That’s wrong! In order to be an awesome girlfriend, say it often, and mean it.

It’s easy: Say “I love you” regularly, and shower him with affection alongside it.

 

15. How to be the best Girlfriend in a long-term Relationship

Above tips will certainly help you a great deal in knowing how to improve as a girlfriend in order to build an even stronger relationship with the man of your choice.

However, extraordinary situations may require additional skills being applied to make it work.

Such extraordinary situation is present in a long-term relationship. Read on to get some helpful tips on being a good girlfriend in a long-term relationship.

  • Make an extra Effort

Becoming a better girlfriend in a long-term relationship involves making an extra effort, going the extra mile, to stay in touch.

Do not let a long day at work get into the middle of your relationship but instead check in with him regularly.

Long-term relationships require the extra effort, so be honest with yourself and ask yourself regularly if you can honestly say you are going the extra mile to make it work.

  • Do not blame him if Text/Skype/Phone Dates don’t always fit his Schedule

Long-distance relationships require more patience than “normal” relationships. In particular, you may not always be aware of your partner’s schedule.

Hence, in a long-term relationship you also need to make an extra effort not to get upset or impatient with him if he ends up cancelling a “phone-date” that you had been looking forward to.

Rest assured that he dislikes the situation probably as much as you do and make sure to reschedule a new date right away.

  • Go on “remote Dates”

One way to do so is by watching a movie together. Easy enough done and what worked for Harry and Sally will surely not harm your relationship, either.

So check out the TV schedule or look for a Netflix movie that could be interesting for the both of you!

Moreover, it does not always have to be movies night. For example, if both of you enjoy cooking, you could simply cook (and then indulge in) your favorite meal together.

In times of video conferencing over Skype or iPhone / Android, very easy to do!

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Relationship Blogs and Dating Blogs – The TOP 10 List

Our TOP 10 List of the best Relationship Blogs and Dating Blogs

Check out our Top 10 Relationship Blogs and Dating Blogs for the best available info and discussions on everything surrounding relationships, darting, love, sex and mental health.

We handpicked all of the following blogs and present them to you in no particular order – we believe they are all very informational, helpful, and … fun!

  1. Science of Relationships

  2. Sex and London City

  3. Baggage Reclaim

  4. The Last Honest Guy

  5. Blog With Benefits

  6. Surviving Dating

  7. My Pixie Blog

  8. The Urban Dater

  9. Dating Advice From a Girl

  10. Seriously Maybe

Also Read: Relationship Advice for Women

 

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1. Science of Relationships

Url: http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/

Author: Team of Relationship Scientists

About: Get relationship advice backed up by science and statistics. Science of Relationships is a good resource of anything related to sex, relationship and that most-talked about emotion – love! The authors behind the site are scientists, experts and professors in the relationship field. No, this is not the usual, full of jargon research website; all the articles are presented in a fun, simple and easy to understand manner.

 

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2. Sex and London City

Url: http://www.sexandlondoncity.co.uk/

Author: Nixalina

About: The author of this blog, Nixalina, launched Sex and London City as a beauty and fashion blog. But her perceptive and honest articles about relationships and dating gained her a cult following. Sex and London City is now one of the most popular of the UK’s relationship blogs and dating blogs. Nixalina’s unapologetic approach in showing the exciting and brutal reality of being a single woman looking for love catapulted her as a sex and dating expert. Her take on dating is both insightful and refreshing.

 

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3. Baggage Reclaim

Url: http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/

Author: Natalie Lue

About: If you’re in a rut or stuck in the complicated maze of dating, you definitely need someone like Natalie Lue. Baggage Reclaim is inasmuch special among the dating blogs and relationship blogs, as it aims to help people deal with their relationship baggage and gain back their confidence along the way. Emotional de-cluttering is the blog’s specialty. Browse its library of articles or take one of Natalie’s subscription-based courses.

 

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4. The Last Honest Guy

Url: http://www.thelasthonestguy.com/

Author: The Last Honest Guy

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: The Last Honest Guy is your go-to blog for uncensored advice and insights about men and relationships. If you are a woman confused about the guy you’re dating, you can ask questions and get unfiltered answers about what men really think. The articles and guides here are written from a man’s perspective, so it may not always coincide with how you think (if you’re a female), but hey, aren’t you curious about what really goes on in their heads, anyways?

 

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5. Blog With Benefits

Url: http://www.blogwithbenefits.com/

Author: Jessica Druck

About: From How To Tell You’re a Booty Call to How To Get Over Someone in The Age of Social Media – there’s plenty of relevant articles here to keep you busy. Like many relationship bloggers, Jessica started the ‘Blog With Benefits’ simply as a space to unload her thoughts and dating horror stories. Now Jessica is busy inspiring others and making people laugh through her posts on various social media sites.

Recommended Reading: Learn to make a Guy fall in Love with You

 

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6. Surviving Dating

Url: http://survivingdating.com/

Author: Deborrah Cooper (Ms. Heartbeat)

About: This blog is run by the irascible advise columnist, Ms. Heartbeat. Deborrah Cooper tackles a wide range of topics about love from dating pet peeves to texting rules for dating singles. Her blog posts are opinionated and insightful, and with over 20 years of experience in the relationship field, she knows how to handle any topic in a witty and hilarious way. Deborrah also writes for AskHeartBeat.com.

 

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7. My Pixie Blog

Url: http://mypixieblog.com/

Author: Charlotte

About: Charlotte founded My Pixie Blog in 2009 after the demise of her long-term relationship. It didn’t take long and the blog gained a number of avid readers in the busy world of relationship blogs and dating blogs. Charlotte discusses topics about letting go, speed dating, bachelorett- lifestyle and a lot more.

 

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8. The Urban Dater

Url: https://theurbandater.com/

Author: Alex Vasquez

About: This blog from Alex Vasquez covers various topics related to dating, sex, relationships and love. If you need to spice up your Match.com or Tinder profile, they offer online dating profile help and critique for a small fee. The Urban Dater’s articles cater to both men and women, so you’ll never feel left out.

 

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9. Dating Advice From a Girl

Url: http://datingadvicefromagirl.com/

Author: Midori Lei

About: As her blog’s tagline suggests (traditional relationship in a modern world), Midori holds time-honored values and beliefs in dating. She believes men should make the first move, and that sex isn’t just a physical act. Whether you share the same values with her or not, you’ll learn a thing or two from her self-written articles. She also does unique email and texting consultation if you need some love advice. A great resource!

 

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10. Seriously Maybe

Url: http://seriously-maybe.com/

Author: Marckens P. and Rey

About: Although the articles on Seriously Maybe are presented from a man’s perspective – the author, Mackens P., aims to give readers a different view on each gender from a psychological standpoint. It’s interesting to read about his take on controversial topics like ‘Why It’s Okay For a Man to Cheat and Not Okay for Women’. You may not necessarily like what you read, but the topics covered will open up a way for people to dig deep into the subjects and definitely get the conversation going.

Also Read: The TOP Online Relationship Advice Sites and our Relationship Coach Recommendations

Online Relationship Advice Sites – Our TOP 10 List

Online Relationship Advice Sites – Our TOP 10 of the most helpful Sites

When it comes to matters of the heart, it helps to have real people you can talk to and relate to. If you need an expert’s advice or just a space to vent out, check this compilation of our selected Top 10 online relationship advice sites out there.

  1. http://www.datingadvice.com/

  2. http://thecoupleconnection.net/

  3. http://www.yourtango.com/

  4. https://goodmenproject.com/

  5. http://www.anewmode.com/

  6. http://www.vixendaily.com/

  7. http://www.twoofus.org/

  8. https://youqueen.com/

  9. http://www.lovepanky.com/

  10. http://www.sheknows.com/

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1. http://www.datingadvice.com/

Tagline: One major authority on all things related to dating

Membership: Free (forum)

Site Offerings: This online relationship advice site features daily articles from dating and relationship experts and a lively forum with over 5,000 registered users. You can find a bunch of almost everything here – dating site reviews, research studies, industry news and a relationship advice forum.

 

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2. http://thecoupleconnection.net/

Tagline: Where couples work it out

Membership: Free

Site Offerings: The Couple Connection is a free online relationship advice site created and operated by OnePlusOne, a leading relationship support charity and research organization in the UK.

The Couple Connection’s relationship advice aims to empower couples to work on their relationships. The site offers a wide range of articles, quizzes, activities and self-assessment tools to help you improve and strengthen your relationship. If you want relationship advice from trained counselors or if you just feel like you need someone to talk to, check out The Listening Room.

 

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3. http://www.yourtango.com/

Tagline: The leading online magazine dedicated to love and relationships

Membership: Free

Site Offerings: A collection of affirming stories, thoughtful opinions and perspectives, expert advice and shareable lists from diverse voices.

The site features a free-to-register community where you can connect with other members, comment on stories and get invited for future events. You will find a variety of interesting and helpful posts about dating, men, and celebrities.

 

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4. https://goodmenproject.com

Tagline: The conversation no one else is having

Membership: Annual Platinum, Annual Gold, and Annual Bronze with fees varying from around $5.- to $50.- / year

Site Offerings: The Good Men Project was founded in 2009 as a collection of stories about defining moments in a man’s life. It quickly grew into a multi-faceted media company and a social platform where anyone can participate in conversations about  how men’s roles are changing in modern life.

The site offers plenty of insightful articles about dating, marriage, ethics, raising kids, gender and sexuality that both men and women can greatly benefit from. Registering for annual memberships gives you access to special features and privileges but all articles from the site are free for everyone.

 

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5. http://www.anewmode.com/

Tagline: Everything you want to know about relationships, love, and about why men act the way they do

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: The site contains unique relationship articles and an advice forum to help women understand men, love and relationships. The have a dedicated forum where you can ask for relationship advice, and you don’t need to sign up or have an account to post. Visit their Facebook fan page with almost 60,000 likes for daily inspiration and tips.

 

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6. http://www.vixendaily.com/

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: The site’s mission is to veer away from the typical, run-of-the-mill advice that other relationship sites offer. Rather, the site focuses on providing mind-reading quizzes, articles and advice tailored to your particular needs. The site doesn’t just offer great guidance on dating and relationship but also on a variety of issues that women face.

 

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7. http://www.twoofus.org

Tagline: Great relationships don’t happen automatically

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: Two of Us was founded as a project of the National Healthy Marriage Resource Center (NHMRC). There are plenty of relationship articles and tips for parents as well as for dating- and married- couples. Find out your and your partner’s relationship style by taking the Heart Chart quiz.

 

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8. https://youqueen.com/

Tagline: Live like a Queen, together with YouQueen!

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: YouQueen is a women’s online lifestyle magazine that provides various articles and tips about beauty, fashion, travel, food, sex and dating. The site was launched in 2012 and aims to become the #1 online destination for women. They feature various authors and contributors from around the entire world.

 

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http://www.lovepanky.com/

Tagline: Your guide to better love and relationships

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: Love Panky provides plenty of resources  about flirting, dating, sex, love and self-improvement – offering different contents for men and women. From dating ideas to sexual fantasies, they got everything covered here. No membership is required, but you can join their Facebook community for more updated reads about love and relationship.

 

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http://www.sheknows.com

Tagline: Women inspiring women

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: She Knows is a lifestyle digital media company that provides daily updates about various topics – catering to women of all ages. You can read about pop culture, food, parenting, sex, dating and a lot more. Stay updated and don’t miss the current trends by liking their Facebook fan page.  Be one of their 600,000+ readers.

Summary – Our Top 10 Online Relationship Advice Sites

We hope you liked our selection of these online relationship resources. If you are looking for more online love and relationship advice, check out these love graphic and relationship info-graphics as well as our Top 10 list of some of the best female relationship coaches out there.

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Love Graphics and Relationship Infographics – Top 7 List

Love Graphics and Relationship Infographics – Our Top 7 List

Good love graphics and relationship info-graphics are a beautiful way to explain all kinds of things related to love and relationships in simplified, easy to understand ways. While it is virtually impossible to evaluate or even examine all the info-graphics available nowadays on this topic, we comprised some of the most appealing and useful love graphics / infographics for you.

We believe they are all fantastic peaces of art with a high degree of information conveyed, and give a good idea of the wide variety of information that can be conveyed with the use of infographics on the topic of relationships and love.

  1. What is The Ultimate Commitment?

  2. The Science Behind a Happy Relationship

  3. Did Dating Die With The Millennials?

  4. What’s Your Relationship Status?

  5. The Science of Love

  6. Why Long Distance Relationship Can Work

  7. The Cost of Love

The graphics are listed in no particular order, we believe they are all simply fantastic, so … Enjoy!
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1. What is The Ultimate Commitment?

Site/Link: Science of Relationships

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: A research conducted by the Loving Lab and ScienceOfRelationships.com explores the 7 displays of commitment according to engaged and recently married individuals.

Even though the desire to get married has declined for the new generation, it’s still viewed as the expression of ultimate commitment. Learn about the six others that got included in the list.

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2. The Science Behind a Happy Relationship

Site/Link: Happify

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: There is really no secret to a happy relationship. It’s a case to case basis, isn’t it? But, according to the Happify team, science can, at least, explain how to make relationships work and how any couples can enjoy a life together.

Sweet. Spend at least 5 hours or more each week talking or just being with each other. That’s one tip from below Happify love graphic / relationship infographic.

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3. Love Graphics – Did Dating Die With The Millennials?

Site/Link: Free Dating

Follow:  Facebook and Twitter

About: Finding romance has changed over the generations. It seems like dating has almost died since the advent of social media and the rise of the millennials.

Is the dating trend really far from what it used to be? Find out through this relationship infographic, created by the folks from freedating.co.uk.

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4. What’s Your Relationship Status?

Site/Link: Shea Strauss (We Love Dates)

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: Your new relationship keeps you going in circles? You are confused about where you stand in this relationship, but you are reluctant to ask?

It’s still best to get the answer from the person in question, but if you just don’t have the guts, this hilarious infographic will help you analyze your current relationship status. Prepare some tissues.

Further Reading: How can you get a Guy to commit?

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5. The Science of Love

Site/Link: My Breast

Follow:  Facebook, Twitter

About: The team behind MyBreast.org created this interesting info-graphic that explains the science behind falling in love, including what’s going on in our brains and our bodies during the process.

This cute – looking love graphics / relationship info-graphic is based on the premise that certain chemicals and hormones in the body guide us through the different stages of love, according to this info-graphic.

Also Read: How can you make a Guy fall for you?

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6. Why Long Distance Relationship Can Work

Site/Link: Chris Martin (Love My Brit)

Follow:  Facebook, Twitter

About: If you’re in a long-distance relationship or thinking of getting into one, this love info-graphic is for you. There’s a lot of online posts out there on the world wide web as to why this kind of relationship doesn’t work, so it’s refreshing to see a different take on the subject.

The information here was based strictly on statistics. You can keep your hopes high.

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7. The Cost of Love 

Site/Link: Retail Me Not

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: Retail Me Not’s infographic explores the true ‘cost’ of love. It shows what couples are willing to spend on dates and Valentines day gifts, as well as who should really pay on first dates. The answers may surprise you.

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Relationship Coach – Our female Top 10 List

The best female Relationship Coach – Our Top 10 List

We round up the Top 10 Influential Relationship Coach – list of females that cater to those who need thoughtful and helpful relationship advice by giving tips and providing online resources.
All of the following female authors are doing an amazing job in our opinion, so we listed them in no particular order.

  1. April Masini

  2. Dr. Wendy Walsh

  3. Laura Doyle

  4. Donna Barnes

  5. Joanna Goddard

  6. Renee Wade

  7. Meredith Goldstein

  8. Susan Winter

  9. April Beyer

  10. Amie Leadingham

1. April Masini

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Website: https://www.askapril.com/
Site Offerings:
Ask April advice column, advice forum and premium private response to your questions

Notable Works: ‘Think and Date Like a Man’, ‘Date Out of Your League’ (books)

About: April Masini is a best-selling author of several books, a critically-acclaimed columnist and a relationship & etiquette expert. Her website is a great resource of relationship advice and tips. There are currently 12 categories in her ‘Ask April’ relationship coach column. And there is plenty to learn about Marriage, Sex and Seduction, Online Dating and Divorce through these articles. More than 26,000 questions have been submitted and answered on her advice forum.

2. Dr. Wendy Walsh

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Website: http://www.drwendywalsh.com
Site Offerings:
Human mating workshop, confidential telephone coaching about dating, marriage and parenting, relationship articles and tips

Notable Works: ‘The 30-day Love Detox’, ‘The Girlfriend Test’, ‘The Boyfriend Test’ (books)

About: Dr. Wendy Walsh is America’s well-loved thought leader in relationships. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in Journalism, a Master’s degree in Psychology and a Doctor’s degree in Clinical Psychology. Dr. Wendy is currently hosting ‘The Dr. Wendy Walsh Show’ on iHeartMedia’s KFI 640.  Dr. Wend is also a news commentator on CNN and 9 Network, Australia – where she breaks down the science of human behaviors, such as sex, love, dating, gender roles and parenting. She was a part of the reality show ‘Happily NEVER After’ from the Investigation Discovery Network.
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3. Laura Doyle

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Website: http://www.lauradoyle.org
Site Offerings:
Free intimacy quiz and ‘The Six Intimacy Skills’™, individual relationship and marriage coaching, Laura Doyle coaching, training and certification, relationship and marriage workshops, various relationship articles via blog

Notable Works: ‘First, Kill All The Marriage Counselors’, ‘The Surrendered Wife’, ‘The Surrendered Single’ (books)

About: Laura Doyle is no ordinary relationship coach, but a New York Times’ best-selling author and intimacy expert. She is the creator of ‘The Six Intimacy Skills’™ – a free webinar that helps women learn to get respect, reconnect and rev-up their love life. Laura promotes creating a passionate and playful relationship through this step-by-step system. Her free quiz will reveal what keeps you from having an amazing relationship.

Also read: Learn how to save your Marriage

4. Donna Barnes

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Website: http://www.donnabarnes.com/
Site Offerings:
Dating website, Dating, Relationship and Breakup Coaching, Breakup Rescue video collection, Relationship advice and tips via blog

Notable Works: ‘Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices and It’s All About You!’, H’ow to use Your Power to Get (and Keep) a Wonderful Man’ (books)

About: As a dating, relationship and heartbreak coach, Donna Barnes started a dating website, which now has more than 1.6 million genuine U.S. members. She’s a frequent guest on TV and radio programs such as Good Morning America. Donna currently offers telephone and Skype coaching, as well as in-person meetings.

5. Joanna Goddard

relationship_coach_joanna_goddardWebsite: https://www.cupofjo.com/
Site Offerings:
Daily articles about relationships, fashion, culture and parenthood

Notable Works: ‘A Cup of Jo’ (blog)

About: Joanna Goddard launched ‘A Cup of Jo’ in 2007 as a weekend hobby. The blog grew big enough for her to quit her full-time job. The site offers various and helpful contents about style, food, design, travel, parenthood and relationship – being the most popular category.

Also interesting: How to make a Guy fall in Love with you fast

6. Renee Wade

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Website: http://www.thefemininewoman.com/
Site Offerings:
Tips about finding love and commitment, relationship articles, entry level and advanced programs on relationship courses

Notable Works: ‘The Feminine Woman’™ (blog), ‘Shen Wade Media’ (online courses)

About: Renee Wade was a lawyer by profession when she authored ‘The Feminine Woman’ in 2009 and hasn’t looked back since. Her mission is to help women understand men, dating and relationships. Renee’s blog, ‘The Feminine Woman’™, has attracted more than a million visitors. She is also the co-founder of Shen Wade Media.

7. Meredith Goldstein

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Website: https://www.meredithgoldstein.com/
Site Offerings:
Love Letters – advice column
Notable Works: ‘The Singles’ (book)

About: Meredith Goldstein is an advice columnist at Love Letters – a daily dispatch of advice for readers of Boston.com. Meredith is also an entertainment reporter for The Boston Globe. You can send in your questions about love and relationships and get advice from Meredith herself.

8. Susan Winter

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Website: http://www.susanwinter.net/
Site Offerings:
One-on-one consultation via phone or Skype, VIP consultation for long-standing clients, relationship articles

Notable Works: ‘Breakup Triage: The Cure for Heartache’,
‘From Negative to Positive in 20 Minutes’ (audio books), ‘Allowing Magnificence’, ‘Older Women, Younger Men’ (books)

About: Susan Winter tapped into her past experiences to become a best-selling author and relationship expert in higher thinking for an evolving world. Her first book, ‘Older Women, Younger Men’, became an instant bestseller, opening the hearts of readers in acknowledging the validity of this type of age-gap love. There are various articles on her website that talk about relationship challenges, modern dating and empowerment.

9. April Beyer

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Website: https://www.aprilbeyer.com/
Site Offerings: Free online dating advice, paid audio series about attracting quality men, dating resources and relationship articles

Notable Works: ‘Smart Sexy Soulful Dating’ (audio series)

About: April Beyer is a trusted relationship coach and expert matchmaker. Her expert advice has been featured on ABC, Good Morning America, Dr. Phil and The Early Show to name a few. She created ‘Smart Sexy Soulful Dating’™, an audio series featuring a three-step program that teaches women how to date, flirt and communicate in an authentic and feminine way. April Beyer will soon launch ‘Smart Women Smart Love’™, a new project that will include monthly live coaching and Q’s and A’s.

10. Amie Leadingham

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Website: https://www.facebook.com/Amiethedatingcoach/
Site Offerings: Free relationship readiness review, private Conscious Dating Club, Conscious Dating Skills e-course, group coaching, dating and relationship articles via blog

Notable Works: ‘A Woman’s Handbook to Online Dating: Secrets to Successfully Find Love Online’ (book)

About: Amie Leadingham is a Master Certified Relationship Coach, who helps singles create their unique relationship plan. Amie was named one of LA’s Best Dating Coaches in 2014.

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How to get a Guy to ask You out – 7 Tips and Tricks

How to get a Guy to ask You out?!

Nothing is more frustrating then being interested in a guy who’s not making a move to ask you out. But then – how to get a guy to ask you out? You don’t want to be too obvious about your feelings, but you can’t just sit and do nothing, either. If you really want to get a guy to ask you out, you have some work to do.

how to get a guy to ask you outWhen you meet a guy you really like, employing a few tactics is necessary to keep him interested and to eventually ask you out.

Some guys either just don’t see you as a dating potential or they are simply scared of asking you out; sometimes it is then not easy to figure out just what makes him commit to you. Further, if he thinks of himself as being less successful or less attractive than you are, he will definitely feel discouraged to ask you out on a date.

Help him make a move by utilizing the following tricks:

  1. Look sexy, not trashy

  2. Give him some Eye-Contact

  3. Compliment him

  4. Be witty

  5. Don’t stage a public Display of Humiliation

  6. Drop a Hint

  7. Do it yourself

1. Look sexy, not trashy

Basics first. So let’s look at how to get a guy to notice you. You can’t get a guy to ask you out if he doesn’t notice you, so be noticeable. Wear clothes that accentuate your best assets, but not a plunging neckline so low, it shows everything you have (appendectomy scar and all). Be tasteful in choosing outfits and dress and act classy, not trashy.

Physically gifted women tend to show off their ample assets. You will probably attract a lot of men that way, but maybe not the kind of men you want to date.

2. Give him some Eye-Contact

A lot of guys won’t ask a girl out because they’re not really sure if a girl’s into them. They’re just being protective of the ever-mighty male ego. Also, the not-so-confident guys would dread being rejected. You wonder then how to get a guy to ask you out? Give him a little hint by making eye contact. Not a long, creepy stare, just enough to let him know that it’s okay for him to come over, and ask for your number or something.

Try to catch his eyes and hold his gaze. You can let out that pretty smile of yours as a bait. If he’s still not coming to you, you can try it one more time and stare a little longer, but don’t do it for the third time – he’s obviously not interested.

3. Compliment him

Show him you’re interested by complimenting his looks. If a guy is intimidated by you, this will make him feel at ease. Ask him to share something about himself. Ask about his job, his hobbies or sports he likes – anything. Extend the compliments to his interests. If he likes volunteering, arts or literature, tell him you find it wonderful that he likes those things. Be a genuinely good listener, a great man will notice.

4. Be witty

Don’t try too hard to be witty; let it come out naturally. Don’t obsess over how to get a guy to ask you out. Hang out with witty people and learn from them. If there’s no time for that, just be yourself. Put your guards down and simply talk what’s on your mind. Being witty is about timing and saying unexpected things. Engage in funny, sexy banters, and tease a little. Even the most unskilled can come up with something if they feel comfortable enough with the person they’re talking to.

5. Don’t stage a public Display of Humiliation

If your idea of fun and “carpe diem” is being wasted at parties and spewing words your future self will hate you for, then don’t expect a quality man to ask you out. When a man sees an inebriated woman, he will most likely question her character. Know your limits and always be in control of the situation. Don’t be both the damsel and the distress.

6. Drop a Hint

Drop subtle hints that you’re available. Tell him there’s a new movie coming out that you want to catch. Have a spare ticket for a guy-friendly concert or a game he’s dying to see. Another trick for those who can’t ask a guy out directly: invite him on a group date. You can gauge the second time around if he’s interested. If it didn’t get anywhere, you wouldn’t feel so rejected, and you even had fun with friends.

7. Do it yourself

Still not entirely sure how to get a guy to ask you out? In the era of Facebook and Snapchat, asking someone out is still daunting, especially if you’re a girl. We still feel uneasy to approach a guy. It just doesn’t feel right sometimes. Well, you can stop all those worries because the majority of men actually likes it when you ask them out. You’ll take the burden from the shy guys. It will also help you take control of your dating future. Relax! After all, you are only asking him out on a date, you are not asking him to marry you, nor are you at this point concerned to find out how to make the guy fall in love with you!

When subtle hints don’t work, simply tell him that you like to hang out with him, over coffee or while watching a movie. If he tells you NO, well, at least you’ve tried. Show him you’re confident and that his rejection does not bother you.

How to tell if a Guy likes You – 7 surefire Signs he does!

How to tell if a Guy likes You?!

There are so many – at times ambiguous, sometimes blatantly obvious – ways to tell if a guy likes you. Because each man may show his affection differently, the old-age question of how to tell if a guy likes you still baffles most of us. A man who only wants you as a friend may also act like he likes you romantically. It can be confusing and frustrating to think there’s something more between the two of you, when in reality it’s just a passing fancy.

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Let our list here be your guide, but take it with a grain of salt. The actuality will still depend on your situation and the type of guy you’re interested in.

Most men are good flirts, and you should not mistake a little flattery as any kind of serious interest. The shy guys would also be hard to read.

So if you’re pulling your hair out because of all the mixed signals you’re getting, look for the following signs to figure out of how to tell if a guy likes you:

  1. He initiates Conversations

  2. He goes out of his Way for you

  3. You sense a little Jealousy when you’re with other Guys

  4. The Guy in Question acts differently when you’re around

  5. He asks you a lot of Things and remembers little Details about you

  6. He compliments your Looks

  7. He’ll find Ways to let you know

1. He initiates Conversations

It’s the first phase in finding out if a guy likes you and something that’s hard to ignore. He will constantly look for ways to strike up a conversation. He’ll be the first one to talk to you at the party. He will make excuses to talk to you by asking for things he didn’t actually need to ask.

On the other hand, if he doesn’t show you that he’s interested in talking to you or if he cuts every conversation short, then quickly looks for the exit, then he’s probably not into you.

Also read: How to make a Guy fall in Love with you – Advice

2. He goes out of his Way for you

A guy who likes you will make you a part of his priority list. He will let you know about his day and would go out of his way to help you out and do any favors for you. He may cancel a hangout with his friends just to be with you. In short, he would want to make you feel that you’re important and his actions will show that he wants to make you happy.

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3. You sense a little Jealousy when you’re with other Guys

If he only likes you as a friend, he doesn’t mind seeing you around with other men. A guy who likes you would be concerned when you’re hanging out with other guys, sometimes even with your guy friends. He will say he’s just being protective, but you know better. Sometimes he feels a little jealous because he’s still not sure about the position he has in your life.

4. The Guy in Question acts differently when you’re around

Think of a generally goofy, talkative guy that turns quiet when you’re around. You’ll notice him thinking first about what he’s going to say before he opens his mouth. A man who likes you would always want to impress you, and would be a little careful not to say awkward things when you’re around.

5. He asks you a lot of Things and remembers little Details about you

Expect him to talk about himself when he’s trying to impress you. But a man who really likes you, would want to know every insignificant detail about you. He will ask about your past relationships, childhood memories, where you went to school, things you want to accomplish – even those you find weird to talk about.

At one instance, he would then mention some of the things you have talked about and you’d be surprised by how much he remembered the little details you think are unimportant – that guy is surely smitten by you.

6. He compliments your Looks

It’s a no-brainer; when we are attracted to someone, more than half of that attraction comes from the way they look. Much more to men because they are such visual creatures. If we like what we see, we always think about it. We also can’t help not to talk about it. It’s a man’s way of letting you know that he notices you and that he wants to make you feel good. You have to differentiate this though from a close friend who’s just trying to be nice.

7. He’ll find Ways to let you know

Of course, if a guy really likes you, you don’t even have to ask. It will just be too obvious. You don’t have to worry about finding out how to tell if a guy likes you. He will tell you and he will ask you out. If you’ve been waiting for a sign from this guy, and it’s taking a long time to even get the slightest clue, chances are he’s probably not into you. He’s not making a move because he’s not interested. It’s as simple as that.

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