How to make Your Boyfriend Love you more – 7 Amazingly Easy Ways!
We can all relate to the feeling of doubting our lover’s affection. To ensure his commitment and love for you, there are things we can do to strengthen and solidify his feelings.
Here are the best ways to make your boyfriend love you more than ever before!
Return the Favor
Spend Time with his Family
Accept his Faults
Make his Life easier
Don’t question his Integrity
1. Surprise him
Depending on how long you’ve been together, you probably developed a certain routine in your daily life with each other. It’s time to mix things up and try something new! Has he been talking about a new fascination, interest, or something on his bucket-list? Arrange for it and do it together! It could be a birthday surprise, or happen on a random day throughout the year. What matters is that it’s well thought out and catches him by surprise.
2. Return the Favor
Does he do things to please you, even if he doesn’t get satisfaction out of it? It’s a sign that he loves you, and will love you even more, if you return the favor and do something nice for him as well. Watch his favorite sports with him on Saturdays, or have a night out with his friends. No harm done in that! And in the bedroom too: You know what gets him going, so why not do it on occasion? He won’t expect it, which makes it just the more special.
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3. Spend Time with his Family
Many beginnings can be difficult, including getting along with your boyfriend’s family. But make an effort to get to know them and spend some quality-time with them. Take his sister out for a spa day, call his parents on their birthdays, or invite them over for dinner, if they live close enough to do so. If nothing else, alternate between spending the holidays with his and your family. He will appreciate it more than you know.
By the way, the fact that he actually introduced you to his friends and family in the first place is one of the strongest signs he likes you more than a friend!
4. Accept his Faults
Some women tend to be overly critical of their partner, and this is a mistake. If he gives you essential reasons, such as cheating and gambling, then of course. Don’t waste time on a man like that! But if you have a good man at home, who is caring, responsible, and faithful, then don’t sweat the little things. They all come with their bad habits (just like you), but ask yourself: Does it matter in the bigger scheme? Leaving the toilet seat up or cutting his toe nails in front of you aren’t great, and you can politely tell him that. But don’t nag about it. Sometimes we do things on instinct and because we are used to doing them a certain way. Don’t try to change him, if he keeps forgetting. Unless it has a tremendous impact on your relationship, let it go.
5. Make his Life easier
By doing this, he will see you as way more than a girlfriend. If he knows that you are doing your fair share, contribute, and invest in the future of the relationship, it will take some pressure off of him, which will lead to endless appreciation and love for you. Investing in the future can consist of opening a shared bank account (sign of trust) or can be something less significant such as saving up for a vacation with him. Help out when you can (he needs to do the same, of course), and show him that you’re there for him in times of crises. Life will become easier for both of you.
6. Be supportive
His ideas might sound crazy, but never put him down or be overtly negative. It’s ok to be a realist and to tell him about your skepticism, but nonetheless, tell him you support him in whatever decision he’s making. Don’t threaten him with a break-up, if he shares an idea with you that you don’t agree with, but instead be mature about it and agree to disagree, but stay by his side.
From a relationship psychology aspect, a woman being supportive is actually considered by many men as one of the biggest turn ons for guys.
7. Don’t question his Integrity
Unless you have proof of cheating, don’t assume that he is! Don’t be suspicious of every move he makes and the women surrounding him. He will value your trust in him and open up on his own, if you give him enough space for it. You can casually ask about his colleagues or how the guy’s get-together went last night, but don’t pressure him into telling you everything, and most importantly, don’t accuse him of something without solid reason. There is no healthy relationship without trust. He will love you for trusting him unconditionally, and for being the cool and understanding woman that you are!
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