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14 TOP Signs Your Husband doesn’t Love You anymore

The Secret Signs Your Husband doesn’t love You anymore!

  • Do you sometimes feel he does not really care for you anymore? You could almost “disappear” – and he wouldn’t even notice?
  • Does he even avoid saying “I love you” or “I’m in love with you”?
  • Wouldn’t it be nice to know FOR SURE if he is still In LOVE WITH YOU, instead of constantly guessing whether he is still in love with you like in the beginning of your relationship?

 

Sounds familiar?

It takes a lot of energy and effort to maintain a relationship; something in which both parties involved have to do their fair share in order to make it work.

No matter what the circumstances are, seeing your partner distancing himself from you and realizing that there might be already some signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore is painful and saddening. But how do you actually know if that is really the case?

 

Here is the good News:

It turns out you can INSTANTLY CHECK and really find out for sure if he is still in love with you by checking these clear signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore (psychologically PROVEN)!

I have listed signs that will indicate his lack of love for you, and enable you to see the real reason behind his odd behavior.

No woman wants to face the truth when it comes to her marriage and its potential to fall apart.

However, sometimes we have to acknowledge toxic behavior coming from our partner, and realize that we might not get that happy ending we always wanted, at least not with this particular person.

If you think he’s no longer in love with you, look out for the following signs!

So here we go:

      1. He travels alone

      2. A fast Way to find out He’s not in Love any longer: He doesn’t introduce You to new People

        doesn’t introduce You to new People

      3. He doesn’t ask for Your Opinion anymore (47% of Men do this)

      4. A definite Sign, He’s not in Love anymore: He stopped asking You Questions

      5. He no longer talks about private Matters

      6. Nothing You do seems to make Him happy

      7. He engages in heavy Flirting by Phone

      8. One of the top Signs your Husband doesn’t love You anymore – He forgets about You

      9. He doesn’t like being at Home

      10. He’s having an Affair (this might be a 100% Sign, He’s not in Love anymore)

      11. Lack of physical Contact and Affection

      12. He engages in unnecessary Arguments

      13. No more Compliments

      14. He doesn’t communicate with You

 

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1. He travels alone

Couples that travel together, stay together…Unfortunately that is a true statement, and it’s never a good sign if he decides to take trips by himself or with his guy friends all the time, but hesitates to plan a vacation with you.

Traveling is a bonding experience for most couples and shouldn’t be discarded as superfluous.

It’s easy: If he travels alone, and does this often, then something is wrong. It means he doesn’t like coming home anymore, and uses any excuse he can get, even if it’s of professional nature.

 

2. A fast Way to find out He’s not in Love any longer: He doesn’t introduce You to new People

Most men proudly introduce their wife to new colleagues, friends, or distant acquaintances, but it’s a red flag if you haven’t met anyone new in his life in quite some time.

This might mean that his feelings aren’t strong enough anymore to introduce you as his sweetheart, and so he tries to find ways to get out of it.

The truth is:

If he talks about certain people, but makes no move to introduce them to you by making plans, you have to ask yourself why. It can definitely be one of the earliest signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore.

It’s easy: Learn from his friends what’s going on in his life, set up a get-together, and see how he will react. If he hates the idea, then he maybe doesn’t want to be seen as a couple, and prepares for a future single life

 

3. He doesn’t ask for Your Opinion anymore (47% of Men do this)

It’s common for most husbands to ask for their wife’s advice or suggestion, and usually any given help is greatly appreciated.

However, if he no longer does that, and simply makes his own decisions at all times, without even talking to you about it first, then he might be trying to become more independent, and readying himself to live on his own.

I can’t emphasize this enough:

This is actually one of the strongest signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore. Men like to have someone give them support and guidance, so it’s o.k. to be suspicious if he starts taking all of it into his hands.

It’s easy: Does he make big decisions on his own, without your consultation? It’s time to have that talk with him.

 

4. A definite Sign, He’s not in Love anymore: He stopped asking You Questions

One way of keeping a person feel loved and cared for is by asking them questions, and not taking their presence for granted.

It shows that the other person is still interested and intrigued, and that there’s more to discover. If he has entirely given up on that mission, then you got to wonder why he no longer wants to know anything about you.

It’s a heart-wrenching eye-opener, but it does indicate a lack of feelings.

It’s easy: Notice if he asks you anything personal (besides “where is the salt?”!), and check if it’s an ongoing situation. Also try to figure out when this change happened, and if there was a potential culprit.

 

5. He no longer talks about private Matters

Is he keeping secrets from you, and avoids personal discussions? If he does, then it could be that he no longer feels comfortable and at ease sharing things with you; things, that you normally only share with the person you love.

If the love is gone, then he might prefer keeping things to himself.

It’s easy: Confront him about a personal matter and ask him questions. If he refuses to go into the details and to tell you everything there is to know, then he clearly doesn’t see you as his most trustworthy person anymore.

 

6. Nothing You do seems to make Him happy

This is one of those signs where it’s obvious that, no matter what you do or say, you just can’t please him anymore, and give him the happiness he wants.

You could have the best birthday gift for him, cook the most amazing meals, or even provide him with the greatest sex throughout the week, but if he doesn’t love you anymore, he’ll still be distant, vague about his feelings, and look unhappy.

Don’t get me wrong, it might give him a short-lived happiness, but it won’t last for very long, and you’ll see him change back.

It’s easy: If he doesn’t respond to your efforts and thoughtful touches, then it’s no longer up to you to solve the situation. You’ve tried your best and now it’s up to him to tell you his about true feelings.

 

7. He engages in heavy Flirting by Phone

Does he constantly play with his phone, but not with you?

Does he keep it away from you, hidden, and texts messages to God-knows-who late at night?

Look, I won’t kid you, but the truth is…

He’s probably playing out the field by flirting with women online, either through dating apps or chat-rooms that are geared towards married men (which are, unfortunately, plentiful)!

Basically this means that he’s looking at who else is out there and what type of woman he would want to be with after his marriage ends.

Men know that cheating, even if it’s through the internet and by only using his words, can cause long-term damage in a relationship.

If he’s willing to take that risk, he must be losing his love for you, sadly.

It’s easy: Ask him for his phone to “check something” you can’t do on your own phone. Even better: Take it when he’s not in the room (if he ever leaves it unattended!), and see what you can find.

 

8. One of the top Signs your Husband doesn’t love You anymore – He forgets about You

If he does that, it’s a red flag.

It’s not a good thing if he forgets anniversaries, birthdays, or to contact you when he decides to stay out longer than planned.

He should be aware of your presence and that you might worry about him, so if you mean anything to him, he would remember something so important.

Paying no attention and not caring about you is one sure sign that he doesn’t love you anymore.

It’s easy: Make yourself aware whether is is reaching out to you (for example calling or texting you) during the day from work or when is is on the road.

 

9. He doesn’t like being at Home

If he would rather be anywhere but home, then you know something is wrong.

The truth is:

If you love someone, you want to spend time with that person and are looking forward of coming home.

If he doesn’t, then he has started to lose interest. If you notice him coming home late a lot or sometimes not at all, then it’s obvious. Does he spend his days off at home, or makes plans with you?

If he keeps finding excuses and cancels plans you made together, his feelings have changed and you have to address it as soon as possible.

It’s easy: Pay attention whether he continuously makes a push to get out of the house, instead of staying close to home, especially during the weekends or evenings.

 

10. He’s having an Affair (this might be a 100% Sign, He’s not in Love anymore)

Are you suspicious of his whereabouts and have strong evidence that he’s cheating?

A man who still loves his wife wouldn’t get heavily involved with another woman. It’s one thing to have a one night stand (not great either, by the way) but another to start an affair.

An affair consists of regular meet-ups, good time-management, and a strong liking for the other person.

Otherwise you wouldn’t start an affair!

In the worst case scenario, affairs sometimes lead to new relationships, and as a by-product, divorce becomes inevitable.

It’s easy: If you don’t know how to approach this topis, set some time aside and simply ask him if there is any other women in his life (other than his mom, of course) besides you that is of any importance to him. You will get a good feel by his reaction alone, whether ther is anything you should be concerned about.

 

11. Lack of physical Contact and Affection

Does he still hold your hand, stroke your hair, or kiss you good night?

These are essential things a husband should do, even after many years of being together. If he doesn’t show you any kind of affection, and even tries to get out of sex, it’s a strong indicator for his lack of interest.

Sexual interactions are only one component of a healthy relationship, but an important one, which no husband refuses, unless he has an affair/doesn’t love you anymore, or often both!

It’s easy: Check his level of interest for physical contact regularly, by reaching out to him, holding his hands, starting to be intimate to him. Your reaction will tell you how much he is still “into it”.

 

12. He engages in unnecessary Arguments

Having disagreements or fights is normal, at least to a certain extent.

If everything goes well, you both feel guilty afterwards and make up, and so circle goes on and on.

Nothing unusual in that behavior, however, it becomes a problem if he stirs the pot all the time for no good reason!

If he constantly argues with you and holds grudges, then it could be worse than you thought. If he blames you all the time and never apologizes, it’s another strong sign.

It’s easy: Keep track of the quarrels and little fights the both of yo uhave. Does he start most of them? Make sure to bee honest to yourself about it, in order to get the most accurate “record”.

 

13. No more Compliments

Surely there was a time when he told you how great you looked, or how amazing your eyes were glistening against the sunshine! Remember that?

If he doesn’t compliment you anymore, or only has negative comments to make to you/about you, then he has already moved on. It’s brutal, but that simple.

When you love a person, you are kind to them and give them the right amount of compliments!

It’s easy: Pay attention to him complimenting you. But, remember that it will be a lot easier for him to compliment you, if he in turn receives some kind, nice, loving words from you as well.

 

14. He doesn’t communicate with You

If he stopped talking to you and trying to solve issues, then he’s getting ready to be single.

No husband in their right mind would do that to their wife, unless there’s no real love left. The relationship is doomed without proper conversations, date night exchanges, and talking through your problems.

Only with that there is a chance of fixing it. If he’s willing to go to couple’s therapy, great!

But if he gives up beforehand, and doesn’t even try to save your marriage, then he doesn’t love you anymore. He wants out and that’s his way of letting you know.

It’s easy: Instead of asking yourself over and over “Does my husband still love me?”, strike up a good conversation instead, and see if he is ready to engage in it.

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Does He care about Me? 7 Secret Signs tell immediately!

Does he Care about me? 7 proven Ways to find out immediately!

One of the most challenging things to figure out, when you start dating someone, is if he really cares about you.

women sitting next to men wondering does he care about meHaven’t we all asked that question at some point? Yes, in the beginning of a relationship it is usually all sunshine, but at some point we do wonder how much the new guy on our side actually cares about us and about the relationship we have with him now.

There are some fairly clear signals that will ease your mind. So next time you’re feeling unsure, watch out whether he says or does one (or better, many) of the following, and you can be almost certain that he truly does care about you as a person and as his partner.

    1. He says “We”

    2. He does care about You if he makes Room for You!

    3. A Man cares if he listens to You, attentively

    4. A man cares about you if he showers You with Affection

    5. He bonds with Your Family and Friends

    6. He surprises You

    7. A guy cares for you if he wants to make Amends

    8. Signs he cares deeply about you … he asks for Your Opinion and Advice

    9. Surprising Facts: What Men really don’t care about!

With these in mind, you’ll have the answer to your question very quickly!

1. He says “We”

Saying “we” is a big step for a guy, especially if he says it in front of others! It signifies his commitment to you and that he sees the two of you as one unit together. This can be a simple “we love cats” or “we love Italian food” – hey, if you both do, why not say it like that? – or involve future plans, such as vacations or upcoming weekends. Either way, him using the word “we” or “us”, rather than “me”, is a good sign that he cares!

Some psychologist actually go so far, they claim the mere use of the word “we” instead of “I” can tremendously improve any relationship. So if you in turn wonder how to be a better girlfriend and make your guy happy, feel free to make use of this little word “we” as well!

2. He does care about You if he makes Room for You!

You can tell that he cares about you when he changes his schedule at times or re-arranges his living habits for you. He is then consciously making an effort to make time and room for you, which is a pretty big deal in any guy’s book. It means that life stopped revolving only around him, and another person became important enough to be considered as part of his inner circle.

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3. A Man cares if he listens to You, attentively

At times, as you may have noticed at some points in the past, men lose focus and stop listening. Yet, when he truly cares, he will listen, even if you’re repeating yourself! He will be polite, respectful, and not interrupt your train of thoughts, instead of talking about himself all the time.

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4. A man cares about you if he showers You with Affection

If he suddenly enjoys more cuddling, hugging, kissing, or giving spontaneous neck massages, then you’re clearly having an effect on him! Does he make you tea in the morning? Does he say I love you regularly?

All those are great signs! It needs to be obvious that he cares about you, and showing you affection, as well as being verbal about it, are some major signs that he does. Of course, you want to be sure that his expression of affection and his compliments are actually sincere!

5. He bonds with your Family and Friends

Does he sweet-talk your parents, or have hang-out sessions with your siblings? Then you don’t have to wonder whether he cares about you, too much. His actions are a strong indicator that he’s trying to bond with the ones you’re closest to and that’s usually a sign that he cares a big deal about you!

He wants to make sure that he’s accepted into the family and seen as a potential new member, and therefore establish a healthy relationship with everyone. This also includes your friends! If he’s willing to join you and your friends for dinner or a night out, then he wants to get to know them better and find a common denominator to bond over, for the future.

Find out for sure: Top Signs he cares deeply about you!

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6. He surprises You

No need to wonder whether he cares about you when he constantly tries surprising you, because no one surprises a person they don’t care about! Does he plan a surprise birthday party for you or decides to take you to Venice during your next holidays, unexpectedly? Then he’s a keeper!

He pays attention, and wants to make sure you’re happy. He spends time thinking about you and what nice things he could do for you. This can also be something much smaller, such as buying your favorite cake and surprising you with it at home, or buying tickets to see the latest movie of your choice.

How can you tell if a guy likes you? Anything with a surprise effect works to show that he cares.

7. A guy cares for you if he wants to make Amends

What a wonderful thing for a man to do, if he knows how to make things right again and is capable of saying sorry! Not everyone can, so if he’s trying hard to make amends with you after an argument, it means that it’s important to him and that he doesn’t want to lose you. He respects your feelings and is able to look at both sides and see his own faults in it as well.

If he wouldn’t care, he wouldn’t bother trying to fix things between the two of you.

8. Signs he cares deeply about you … he asks for Your Opinion and Advice

Men are mostly private creatures, sometimes even secretive, so if he asks you for advice or your opinion, it shows that he’s letting his guard down. He wants to give you some influence over his decisions, which means he’s letting go of the full control that he’s had up until that point.

It’s a tremendous step for most men to ask for someone else’s advice, so you can be sure that he cares about you and your thoughts very much.

Recommended: How to make a Guy fall in Love with you!?

9. Surprising Facts: What Men really don’t care about!

After having had a chance to figure out whether he really cares about you (I hope you came to conclude that the answer is you!), let’s have a closer look at a few items men supposedly really do NOT care about, all that much.

According to several representative polls, there are a few items women are very concerned about, yet men really do not care about, at all. You wondered ‘Does he Care about Me”? Well, here are a few aspects he definitely does not care about, so take those of your list to worry about:

  • Does he care about a perfect Look?

Women spend x-times over more time getting ready in the morning, putting make-up on, carefully selecting cloths, matching their belts and accessories with the color of their shoes, style their hair, well, you get the idea.

Men instead can get ready within 5 minutes time. And by getting ready, I mean taking a shower, being fully dressed, ready to leave the house for a meeting.

What is my point? The point is that men really do not take that close of a look when it comes to themselves or you being perfect. Sure, men do appreciate a woman’s effort to dress nicely and to e.g. put some makeup own. On top of that, if you wonder how to get a guy to notice you, definitely do not miss out on looking stellar, being dressed nicely and wearing good makeup! Contrary to a woman’s believe, however,  it does not always have to be perfect. Men are almost completely missing the eye for every detail that a woman is so concerned about.

That, of course, is good news for all women as it means that even on days where we may not feel all that perfectly styled, dressed, having that perfect hair and the perfect make-up, men will be totally not focused on these “shortcomings”, at all!

So take a deep breath – and keep on enjoying the day, instead of worrying how much your guy may pay attention to this “issue” of you feeling imperfect for a day.

  • Does he care about me, despite my “extra Pounds”?

For some of us, the only logical, very first thing to do in the morning is to consult our bathroom scale and check to see if last night’s dinner or drinks with the girls may have negatively affected our weight. And by so checking our weight, you know it, we are talking potentially fractions of a pound.

After realization that we have not lost as much as we had planned for by the end of the week, month, etc., or, even worse, after realizing that we may have gained an entire pound or two over the course of last week, our day is pretty much done before it even started.

While we still have to figure out how we feel about this situation, personally, you can rest assured that men are not concerned about us gaining a few pounds, at all. Most of the time they do not reflect on our weight at all, studies show.

That is not because they do not want us to look pretty, but simply because they tend not to over-exaggerate these points as much as us women do sometimes.

So keep that in mind in case you’re still wondering “Does he care about me”! It is one thing for you to worry about these items, but rest assured, your man will love you even more when you do have and also sometimes show your imperfections!

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How to Get over being Cheated on – 3 Steps Expert Advice

The most successful Ways How to Get over being Cheated on

The pain of being cheated on is real and cannot be denied. When your significant other chooses to be unfaithful, it feels like the ultimate betrayal of the trust you had in your relationship. You may feel inadequate or depressed, and your self-esteem may suffer.

image of standing woman worrying how to get over being cheated onHowever, there is a small bright side.

All these feelings are totally normal, and there is hope for moving on. But you have to decide how you want to move forward.

Here are some of the most successful ways to figure out how to get over being cheated on. It is expert relationship advice, pared with “hands-on” tips on how to move forward and get to living a normal, happy life again.

    1. If You’re Ready to Fix Things after being cheated on…

      a) Hold Him accountable

      b) Be ready for the hard Truth

      c) Stay patient

    2. If You’re Ready to Move On after being cheated on…

      a) Examine your Partner

      b) “My Boyfriend cheated on me!” – Examine Yourself

    3. The most surprising Fact about cheating Men

Always remember that it is never your fault that someone cheated on you. Perhaps you’ve been dealing with a variety of relationship problems for a while, some of which you may know are your fault.

But it was not you who made the choice to cheat. It was your partner who decided to cheat. Don’t blame yourself.

With that in mind, you have to make the important decision to either mend your relationship or break up and move on. This is extremely personal, and the choice you make will depend a lot on your individual situation. To help simplify it for you, we’ve taken a look at what you can do to heal a relationship – and what you can do when it’s time to end it.

1. If You’re Ready to Fix Things after being cheated on…

Psychology Today suggests that the best way how to get over an affair he may have had and in order to heal a fractured relationship after one partner cheats is through rigorous honesty. In a nutshell, rigorous honesty is the unwavering commitment to staying truthful and completely transparent with your partner.

This can be a challenge for someone who cheats, especially if they are used to relying on dishonest behavior. There are a few ways you can aid your partner with their commitment to rigorous honesty.

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a) Hold Him accountable

If your partner often falls back on lies, you may notice old habits coming back to haunt them. Signs that your partner is struggling with honesty may include hiding part of the truth, getting defensive, and minimizing a situation or story. Don’t be afraid to call out your partner on these behaviors, but be patient. It can take time to fix old habits, but if you’re both truly committed than the wait is worth it. Besides, holding him accountable for his mistakes will be the only way for you to deal with the general question of how to build trust in a relationship again. So from that very selfish aspect already, you want to have a very honest discussion with your partner.

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b) Be ready for the hard Truth

Sometimes rigorous honesty can bring ugly truths to the surface. It’s important for you not to shy away from these. After all, you want to really learn how to get over being cheated on by your partner, right? Your partner may tell you something truthful that is surprising or feels hurtful as first, especially if you’re not used to this level of honesty. Remember you are rebuilding trust with your partner. Don’t shame them for being honest, but neither of you should be mean or disrespectful to each other during these hard-to-have conversations. Also bear in mind that the discussion you need to have with your partner is not about why men cheat and lie in general, but very specific and limited to your particular situation.

c) Stay patient

Even if your partner is being 100 percent honest, you may find it difficult to believe what he tells you. This is normal, and your partner should be understanding of this. Remember that rebuilding trust takes time! While it’s important to make an effort to believe your partner when he is being honest, you aren’t expected to change your feelings overnight.

The most important part of rebuilding your relationship is keeping the lines of communication completely open – on both sides! Both partners have to be willing to be patient with each other and work towards rebuilding trust and honesty.

Free Relationship Advice for How to Get over an Affair!

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2. If You’re Ready to Move on after being Cheated on…

If cheating behavior is something you just can’t forgive or if you really try hard but keep finding yourself going crazy thinking day-in-day-out “my boyfriend cheated on me”, it may be time to end the relationship. This decision can be just as difficult to make, and requires a lot of self-reflection and healing. In that case, you will then also have to work on how to let go of someone you love. Take time to reflect on your relationship, and consider what you can learn from the experience.

a) Examine your Partner

So, you ended up with a someone who cheated on you. Were there any red flags in the beginning of the relationship that might have tipped you off? Unfaithful partners have to withhold the truth to keep up their cheating behavior. Did your partner lie to you about anything else? Were there other times that they hid things from you? Science shows that women who learn how to recognize bad behavior in a partner after being cheated on are more likely to have successful relationships in the future.

b) “My Boyfriend cheated on me!” – Examine Yourself

If you’re the type of person who seems to always end up with a dishonest partner or a cheating spouse, now’s the time to figure out why. Do you have chronic low self-esteem? Feeling down about yourself can set you up for toxic relationships. To put it simply, if you’re telling yourself you deserve bad things, you’ll end up with bad things. Start recognizing the good things that you deserve, and seek them out. Then also realize that now it is time to work on getting over your ex relationship.

There may be a million reasons to cheat, but the only way to fix it is through honesty. Whether you’re ready to commit to total honesty with your partner, or need to move on and be honest with yourself, the key to understanding how to get over an affair and also to future happiness, lies in finding the truth. Sometimes the truth is painful, but it’s always worth the happiness it brings in the end.

3. The most surprising Fact about cheating Men

There are a few really surprising facts about cheating men that might be good for you to know about. Some of these facts might help you a great deal in making some of the touch decisions we talked about, above. Maybe the most surprising fact about cheating men, however, is that the vast majority of all men that cheated on their wives consider themselves still very much so in love with their partners.

Most of the time it is not the love that they were missing, but the hunt for the ordinary, the adventure, the boost in self-esteem they might experience when “conquering” the other sex, successfully. Men often times “suffer” silently in their relationships as they feel they might not get what they emotionally need. This is very often the case in situations where couples, often married couples, have settled in with their lives, focus on raising children, rather than also keeping a focus on themselves as individuals and also as a couple.

Very often, psychologist have found out, men actually believe that by cheating on their partner they can satisfy those missing needs, fill those voids they perceive or actually experience in their relationships, in order for them to then life happier with their actual wives! This interesting fact might definitely be something to consider when wondering how to get over being cheated on by your partner.

So where do you start?

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Bible Verses about Relationships – Most Loving and Inspiring

9 Bible Verses about Relationships that can teach You about Love

Bible verses about relationships can provide great inspiration, support, and comfort for all of us when it comes to love and our relationships. The Bible is one of the greatest resources we have for learning about love. After all, God is love.

image of wedding bands on top of bible verses about relationshipsFor people of faith, who better to teach us about love than God? Even individuals who aren’t particularly religious have something to learn from verses.

The nine passages we’ve collected with bible verses about relationships all speak to the human spirit in a way almost anyone can draw inspiration from. In times of trouble or relationship strife, these words can bring great comfort.

    1. Love is patient, Love is kind

    2. It is not good that the Man should be alone

    3. A Cord of three Strands is not quickly broken

    4. And over all these Virtues put on Love

    5. Above all, love each other deeply

    6. No one has ever seen God

    7. Be devoted to one another in Love

    8. There are three Things that amaze me

    9. Do everything in Love

    10. The Power of Bible Verses for Couples

    11. Thoughts on Bible Verses about Dating

1. Love is patient, Love is kind

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-5

What better place to start than some of the most famous words about love ever written? This bible verse about love and relationships from Corinthians is spoken in countless wedding ceremonies across the world, as men and women pledge their love and commitment to each other. It is an important reminder that when the going gets tough, the tough choose love.

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2. It is not good that the Man should be alone

“Then the LORD God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’ … So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man.” – Genesis 2:18-25

In the Bible, the partnership of man and woman is as old as the earth itself. This passage from Genesis is a reminder that love and companionship is a natural part of life, and loving another is a way for us to be in touch with our truest selves.

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3. A Cord of three Strands is not quickly broken

“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” – Ecclesiastes 4:12

This verse from Ecclesiastes is a reminder that in loving partnerships, there is strength. The cord of three strands symbolizes the union of husband, wife, and God. Since God is love, we are reminded that couples who face their troubles with loving hearts will persevere. This verse alone can help give you the strength to work towards how to save your marriage in difficult times.

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4. And over all these Virtues put on Love

“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14

Love isn’t only about facing the tough times. Colossians reminds us that love is built and preserved through good works and virtues. In our relationships, we must strive not only for love, but also for other forms of goodness.

 5. Above all, love each other deeply

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” – 1 Peter 4:8

On the other side of the coin, love can protect us from sin, or negative habits and qualities. This doesn’t mean that being in love fixes all your problems! But it does mean that through love and support, we can overcome the temptation to behave in negative ways. This, for example also holds true when we need to learn how to rebuild trust in a relationship. Love makes us better people.

6. No one has ever seen God

“No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.” – 1 John 4:12

No matter what your relationship with God is, this verse from John reminds us that ultimately love is a beautiful mystery. Though we can’t see it, we certainly can feel it. When we make an effort to love we can feel the power it brings.

7. Be devoted to one another in Love

“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” – Romans 12:10

When we truly love someone else, we are reminded to place others before ourselves. This verse from Romans teaches us that the partnership between two people must be prioritized above the self. Through love, couples are stronger together than they could be apart.

Recommended: All on understanding men in a relationship

8. There are three Things that amaze me

“There are three things that amaze me – no, four things that I don’t understand: how an eagle glides through the sky, how a snake slithers on a rock, how a ship navigates the ocean, how a man loves a woman.” – Proverbs 30:18-19

This beautiful Proverb is a gentle reminder that love is a miracle. Though we see love everywhere and in many things, we should never forget how wonderful it is. Like the beauty of nature, love is a gift that should always inspire awe and wonder. Always keep that in mind, especially when you might be in doubt about your relationship and might be wondering how to make a man love you.

9. Do everything in Love

“Do everything in love.” – 1 Corinthians 16:14

Sometimes the simplest phrases can say the most. If you walk away from reading this article with only one verse in your heart, make it this one. It is a reminder that our days will always be full of choices. Some choices will be easy, and some will be extremely difficult. But if we make every choice with love, we will always be on the right path.

10. The Power of Bible Verses for Couples

We can all take comfort in these words of love from the Bible, no matter what our backgrounds or spiritual beliefs may be. Let them strengthen your relationship and your life. In the end, love is truly what brings us all together and above bible verses about relationships do attest to this.

11. Thoughts on Bible Verses about Dating

We looked at various Bible verses for couples, but what does the Bible say about dating, specifically? When it comes to dating, instead of the topic of marriage, Christians have mostly agreed to disagree upon the Bible’s point of view.

This is already because the word „dating” is completely unbeknownst to the Bible. Understandably so, as the concept of “dating” a person did not exist in the days of the Bible. Even today, there are many cultures where a man and a woman are not even supposed to meet or even see each other before they get married, or engage to be married to each other.

While nowadays the process of “dating” serves the purpose of finding a perceived good, suitable “match” for one another, in biblical times meeting a spouse was more so motivated by economical motivations and for creating a family.

Yet, while the Bible may not explicitly speak to the topic of “dating”, it does provide on many occasions biblical guidance for Christians to follow. Let’s look at a few of such ‘bible verses about dating’.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. – Proverbs 18:22

For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. – Genesis 2:24

However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. – Ephesians 5:33

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17 Easy Ways How to make Him Worry about Losing You (FAST!)

Make Him Worry about Losing You … FAST (and psychologically proven)!

  • Have you ever felt like you could “disappear” – and he wouldn’t even notice?
  • Do you feel like you are completely underappreciated?
  • Wouldn’t it be nice to make him actually worry about the relationship? And even better – make him worry that he might be losing YOU?

 

Sounds familiar?

He was probably made to believe that you will stick around no matter what, so what is there to be afraid of?

You probably tolerated countless offenses that his abnormal behavior now seems acceptable, at least, in his eyes.

 

But here is the Deal:

It turns out you can dramatically increase his interest in you and your relationship by following these proven, insanely practical techniques (that ACTUALLY WORK)!

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I’ll show you the best (and updated) tips and tricks on How to make a Guy realize he losing you!

Always keep in mind that an open conversation with him about your feelings are preferred over infusing any kind of fear of loosing you, in him.

After all, you should always strive for a happy, healthy relationship for both, you and him.


So here we go:

    1. Remind him that Your Life was already full and rewarding even before You met him

    2. Quit being a nice Girl and Instantly get 100% of his Attention!

    3. Be firm with Your Words

    4. Stop being available at his Disposal and Make him Crave You like Crazy!

    5. Spend more Time alone with Your Friends

    6. Make Plans without him

    7. Reduce small talk when You’re home together

    8. Be less cuddly towards him

    9. State your Opinions honestly in a Disagreement

    10. Follow through with Your Goals

    11. Get a better paying Job

    12. Continue Your Education

    13. Travel alone

    14. Tell him about newly made Friends of Yours

    15. Discontinue Talk about Marriage and Kids

    16. Set up a Space for Yourself at Home

    17. Surprising Things Men worry about in Relationships

 

Note that the quickest way to a dysfunctional relationship is tolerating abuses and ignoring the set of standards brought by self-love that you once held high.

A toxic relationship is unhealthy because it doesn’t seem so bad at first; by the time you realize where you are, you are already in pretty deep.

Clinician and mental health writer, Kristen Fuller, believes that it’s important to recognize a toxic relationship (i.e. one where you are being physically or verbally abused) and to get out of it immediately.

The same hold true for a relationship where you have to repeatedly ask yourself why do men cheat and lie as you constantly feel your partner might be dishonest to you.

Also read: How to let go of someone you Love


So what does that actually mean?

Before your relationship goes down the hill, you need to establish or regain the balance of giving and taking.

While it’s impossible for all your needs to be met by a single person, the man you love must know how to treat you with love and respect at all times, and you should do the same to him.

A man who is afraid of losing you will not deliberately do things to hurt you. Sometimes you need to shake things up a bit to make it right.

You wonder how to make him realize your value?

Here’s to finding and maintaining the balance in your relationship.

 

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1. Remind him that Your Life was already full and rewarding even before You met him

By reminding, I don’t mean constant nagging that you had a better life with your ex once upon a time. It doesn’t have to be verbal, either. You just need to show him that you’re still the same interesting girl when he first met you.

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Keep your friends, hobbies, and interests – do not lose that burning fire within you.

Your passion to achieve your goals and improve yourself is probably one of the things that attracted him to you. It’s a mistake to give up your unique self just to fit into someone’s life.

 


2. Quit being a nice Girl
and Instantly get 100% of his Attention!

There is nothing wrong about being a nice girl, but there’s a thin line that separates genuinely kind and agreeable people to a doormat. During the first few months in a new relationship, your head is in the clouds.

You want to do everything to make the man of your dreams happy, often at the expense of your own convenience and pleasure. This kind of behavior drives a man to be lazy.


Why is that so important?

If you work double-time to make the relationship work, he’s left with nothing else to do. It will soon backfire because he will most likely blame his shortcomings on you. He’ll whine about feeling “suffocated” when all you did was being a “nice” girlfriend.

So, quit cleaning his apartment every weekend. Stop cooking for him when you’re together. You are his partner, not his mother. Unless that’s what you want him to see in you.

 

The easy way: How to make a Guy realize he losing You!

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3. Be firm with Your Words

You still wonder how to make him worry about losing you? Be firm with your words! Before we enter a relationship, we are already armed with a set of standards – a list of what we can and cannot tolerate. These deal breakers are important. It’s a sign that you are looking after your well-being.

It means you are confident and you love yourself enough not to tolerate abuses or trespasses from other people. But somewhere along the way, we forget about these deal breakers or ignore them altogether for the sake of compromise.


The truth is:

Being forgiving is definitely not a bad trait, but there should be a limit to the number of “I’m sorry” you can accept.

If you tell your man you can never tolerate excessive drinking, but welcome him with open arms the next day he drops in your apartment with a bunch of flowers in hand – you’re sending him a signal that he can disregard your feelings anytime.

Stick with your standards and be firm with your words.

 

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4. Stop being available at his Disposal
and Make him Crave You like Crazy!

Again, you are neither his mother nor his therapist. You have your own life to worry about, own problems to deal with.

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Though it’s equally important to share happy moments and lift each other up in challenging situations, you have no obligation to be available for him 24/7.


No matter how wonderful he is, he must know that you are not born to satisfy his every whim.

 

Once a man realizes that he can lose you if he doesn’t play it right, he’ll be the one to look for ways to satisfy you and keep you interested in the relationship, and you in turn won’t have to worry any longer about why men lose interest in relationships.

 

5. Spend more Time alone with Your Friends

Have dinner or drinks with your friends after work, or plan a spa day.

Let him know what you’re up to, but don’t let him try to change your plans. If he’s a keeper, he won’t try to do that, and tell you to have fun.

However, the more you do it, the more he’ll worry.

It’s easy: Be less available and show that him that your time is also wanted by others.

[Suggested Reading: How to save your marriage from divorce]

 

6. Make Plans without him

Join a book club, attend a gallery opening or go see a show- and do it all without him!

Whenever he’s working, make plans for yourself and don’t feel guilty about it.

He’ll realize you won’t stop living because of his unavailability, and it will give him something to think about.

It’s easy: Partake in your own interests, and live your life fully. Let him see that you don’t mind doing things on your own.

 

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7. Reduce small talk when You’re home together

Talk less, and let him start the conversations, especially if you’re the one normally starting to talk.

Let him figure out what to say and how to say it (if his words don’t fail him).

It’s easy: Be less talkative and he will develop a need to hear your voice. Sometimes less is more!

[Also read: How to make him want you]

 

8. Be less cuddly towards him

He’ll be surprised and definitely worry about losing you, if you suddenly become more distanced.

It’s time for him to get a taste of his medicine. If he normally doesn’t like cuddling, he’ll come around.

It’s easy: Act like you don’t need cuddles (at least temporarily), spread yourself on the couch, and let him come to you.

 

9. State your Opinions honestly in a Disagreement

Don’t back down during a fight or argument. It’s important for you to stand your own grounds and be o.k. with disagreeing.

He’ll respect you for it, and if he worries about losing you due to disagreements, let him think that for a while.

It’s easy: Stay true to your beliefs and don’t be shy or scared to disagree. Every relationship needs to have their differences.

 

 

10. Follow through with Your Goals

Despite of what he says or believe, follow through with your goals and aspirations.

Never let him interfere with any of your dreams, and pursue it even harder if he tries! He’ll see that you’re unstoppable.

It’s easy: Set goals first, and follow the steps accordingly. Stay ambitious and be confident about succeeding in front of him.

 

11. Get a better paying Job

If the chance arises, aim for a better paid job and show him what you’re capable of!

It might sound old-fashioned, but many men, sadly, still want to be the one earning more.

By you earning your financial independence, he’ll know that you can leave at any time, and won’t stay around for money reasons.

It’s easy: Work hard and be the best you can be at your job. It doesn’t matter where or as what, the reward will come eventually and you can show him how proud you are.

[Also read: How to make your boyfriend love you more]

 

12. Continue Your Education

Education is a main key for becoming aware of what you deserve, and what you don’t.

It opens your eyes to new horizons and he might think twice about doing something silly or not treating you the right way, if he realizes that you know what else is out there in the world.

And that’s exactly what education does for someone.

It’s easy: Take classes (even if it doesn’t lead to a higher degree) and keep learning. He’ll find your smart wits irresistible and will try harder not to lose you.

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13. Travel alone

Take a break from it all, and tell him you need time to meditate and reflect, without anyone there.

He’ll worry a bit, for sure, but will give you the space you need, if he loves you.

It’s easy: Pack a bag, go away, and let him spend time alone. He will wonder what you have to reflect on!

 

 

14. Tell him about newly made Friends of Yours

Talk about the people in your life, especially new ones, and make him understand that you are sociable and capable of meeting new people.

This will worry him that you might meet someone better than him.

Its’ easy: Tell him about a newly made male friend and what’s so nice about him. He’ll nod his head, but guys never like to hear that!

 

15. Discontinue Talk about Marriage and Kids

If you did before, try to seem disinterested in those topics for a while, and don’t mention it. He’ll wonder what has changed!

Its’ easy: Don’t talk about kids and marriage! Pretend as if you never think about it anymore.

 

16. Set up a Space for Yourself at Home

If space allows, create a separate room or corner for yourself, and tell him about your need for privacy. He might ponder on that for a bit!

It’s easy: Distance yourself from him in a healthy way, and show him that you’re a strong, independent woman.  Give him reasons to miss you and he will!

 

 

17. Surprising Things Men worry about in Relationships

Let’s turn at looking closer at the psyche of a man, for a moment. Women in general are usually very surprised that men, at least most of them, are inherently insecure about their relationships, by default.

One of the biggest insecurities men carry when it comes to their relationships with women is closely related to losing their partner. Hence, men very often are very worried about not being an adequate partner for their woman, be it for reasons of lack of money, their appearance, or their sexual performance.

It is therefore not uncommon to see jealous behavior in men, not only as you may have expected in women.

 

But what does that mean?

A man is inherently wired in his DNA to provide for you and his family.

Men want to please you. The slightest reason why men might feel they do not measure up against any of his male pears then results in him worrying about you not being satisfied with your relationship.

Men then start to worry about losing women, they become insecure, controlling, and jealous.

Knowing now that men are as insecure as women are, when it comes to losing their partners in relationships, reflect on above-mentioned ways of potentially how to make him worry about losing you.

Then remind yourself that open communication about any problems you may see in your relationship should be the first, the preferred way to work towards a better relationship.

Many women who wonder how to be a better girlfriend therefore actually refrain from trying to amplify their partner’s concerns about losing her in the relationship.

 

Bottom line?

In any relationship, there comes a point when you feel less appreciated, taken for granted, or simply aren’t sure if he loves you the same way that you love him.

All of that is normal and perfectly o.k., but at the same time, it helps if you make him a little nervous and show him an alternative universe without you in it.

Make him worry a bit and show him that you can handle yourself, and don’t need him in your life in order to function as a human being.

It will get him thinking that you’re not just “there” all the time, but that he also has to make an effort to keep you by his side.

 

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15 Easy Ways How to be a better Girlfriend (Works 100%)

Easy Ways How to be a better Girlfriend (psychologically proven)

Do you wonder sometimes how to be a better girlfriend to him? A woman who values her romantic relationship knows that it is dynamic. Our relationships change continuously, whether we like it or not.

Change also comes from within and constant improvement is the key in keeping the love alive. You may be dating a man who does not openly say what he wants from the relationship – well, most men would not even tell you, even if you ask.

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You are probably here because you care about your partner, so much so that you aspire to become a better girlfriend. Yet, your partner’s idea of what a great girlfriend is can be different from what you think.

I’m sure you’re already a fantastic girlfriend, but do you see room for improvements?

I believe we can all do a little better at times, and, as we know, being a girlfriend isn’t always easy, and takes work.

We’re no mind-readers, but there are certain things we can do to be an even better girlfriend.

This doesn’t mean that we have to change ourselves, or turn our own life upside down, but it requires patience, understanding, and attention to detail.

Then, with the following tips, he’ll appreciate and love you even more than before and you’re well on your way to tremendously improving your relationship.

    1. Stay independent

    2. Learn how to handle Conflicts better

    3. Be a better Girlfriend by Respecting his Space

    4. Stop snooping

    5. More Support, less Criticism

    6. Be kind to each other

    7. Help Him where it’s needed

    8. Treat His Family and Friends with Respect

    9. Surprise Him on Occasion

    10. Dress stunningly for Your weekly Date-Night

    11. Be the best Girlfriend by letting Him take charge during Sex

    12. Stroke His Ego

    13. Trust Him unconditionally

    14. A simple “I love You”

    15. How to be the best Girlfriend in a long-term Relationship

1. Stay independent

You wonder how to be the perfect girlfriend to him? Then learn to understand that independence is important not only for you as a woman, but also to your relationship with your man. Independence is attractive, whether you’re a man or a woman.

Independence also teaches how to build trust in a relationship. An independent woman can function on her own, doesn’t focus all her attention and energy to one man, and has a host of interests and commitments that keeps her busy.

She can be happy in and out of a romantic relationship. Independent girlfriends are not clingy because they are self-reliant; they don’t depend on their boyfriends to make them happy.

One of the biggest mistakes people in a relationship make is seeking another person to complete them, and often end up blaming that person for their unhappiness.

It’s easy: Remind yourself of the independent person you are. Have your own hobbies, (girl-)friends and interest. You will be much more interesting to him that way!

Recommended Reading: The best ways to how to keep a man interested in you

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2. Learn how to handle Conflicts better

People in stressful relationships handle conflicts poorly.

According to marriage expert, Susan Heitler, Ph.D, couples who work together in solving their problems constructively have stronger relationships, and it even cuts their risk for stress-related diseases.

Ironing out daily issues can easily turn into a battle of who’s right and who’s wrong.

A great girlfriend knows that it’s more important to resolve the issue at hand, and to come up with a solution that works for both parties.

Your guy would appreciate how mature you are in handling your relationship problems. In return, he will be inclined to reciprocate by coming up with solutions himself.

Therefore, if you truly want to understand  how to keep a man happy, start by avoiding the following behavior during conflicts:

      • leaving passive-aggressive notes
      • giving him the silent treatment or cold shoulder
      • name calling
      • blaming the other person
      • yelling or cussing

It’s easy: Learn to chose your battles! Not every little thing that’s annoying to you is worthwhile arguing over, or even mentioning it. Learn to let things go a little. Sport and even breathing exercises can help with that.

3. Be a better Girlfriend by Respecting his Space

When a woman hears the word “space” in the relationship, she often thinks it’s a sign that the relationship is going off-track. In reality, maintaining your own personal space is a sign of a healthy relationship.

Because men thrive in an environment where they can spend fun times with their peers and share ideas with them, while women prefer a constant connection with their significant other – conflicts often arise.

You may feel neglected if your man asks for a Netflix binge with friends where you are not included. However, an important part of understanding how to be the best girlfriend is to learn that maintaining attachments with other people is also important to your well-being.

So, let the boys have their man cave for themselves. After all, you still need to announce your latest matte lipstick obsession with your girl squad.

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4. Stop snooping

The science of perception has long concluded that we often see what we actively seek. If you are the kind of girlfriend who routinely sneaks in to check your boyfriend’s phone – looking for ‘sexts’ and unusual phone calls – you are more likely to misjudge your guy’s behavior more than seeing it for what it actually is.

Snooping is also a breach of someone’s right to privacy.

If your man is doing something that is bothering you, open up and tell him what’s on your mind, instead of trying to guess the password to his Facebook account or reading his phone messages without his permission.

It’s easy: Just don’t do it! When tempted, remind yourself that it may simply be your mind playing tricks with you and also remind yourself of the possible negative effects it can have. Simply refrain from snooping!

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5. More Support, less Criticism

You wonder how to be the perfect girlfriend? To truly be a better girlfriend, give him more support and less criticism!

Sometimes you might tend to forget that your boyfriend has his own mother, and as such does not need another mouth to bombard him with unsolicited advice.

Sure, you only want what’s best for him, but you have to make sure that you don’t sound like you’re criticizing his every move.

Criticism is toxic to a relationship; ask yourself if you want to be around someone who always magnifies your flaws.

Any man hates the feeling of being devalued, according to Steven Stosny, Ph.D., author of One Thing that Will Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship.

There are many ways to show concern without being too critical. Genuine concern over your boyfriend’s behavior focuses on improvement and not on belittling his personality.

It is not coercive or controlling. If you find yourself punishing or withdrawing affection when your boyfriend fails to do what you want, you are being critical.

It’s easy: Remember that criticism can be highly toxic to a relationship. The benefits of constantly criticizing your boyfriend will definitely be out-weight by this toxicity. Do not criticize him, unless absolutely necessary.

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6. Be kind to each other

Psychologists John and Julie Gottman have studied thousands of couples to determine the ingredients to a successful relationship.

The study, spanning over four decades, found that couples in happy and long-lasting relationships are kind and generous to each other.

How you treat your partner is a great predictor of how strong your relationship will be.

Being kind is more than just being nice. It is knowing when to give support and encouragement despite feeling stressed and distracted.

It is trying to get involved in your boyfriend’s hobbies and interests – even though it’s not your cup of tea.

So – if you want to start right away and work on understanding how to be a better girlfriend, be kind to the man of your choice!

It’s easy: Simply remind yourself of the beginnings of your relationship. Most likely you were very kind to him back then. Remind yourself of the many good reasons to be kind to him now as well.

 

7. Help Him where it’s needed

Men can get overwhelmed when they have to do everything themselves. A great way for you to show him your love and support is by lending a helping hand.

Is there anything that needs to be done, for which he can’t make time?

Maybe you can do it for him.

Even just offering your help will make a difference! An important task is better not to be postponed, and if it’s something dear to him, you might want to roll up your sleeves and get to work alongside him.

It’s easy: Check out what he needs and help. Write a to-do list if needed, and cross some things off, one by one.

 

8. Treat His Family and Friends with Respect

Friends and family are extremely important to get along with, if you want to stay with someone long-term.

One can only hope that they will treat you with the same respect that you should give them, in which case it’s a perfect match.

You should always start out with respect for anyone who’s a big part of his life, and treat them with kindness, dignity and affection.

It’s easy: Ask lots of questions about him and his childhood, which indicates sincere interest, and make sure that everyone feels comfortable and respected when they’re in your presence (as much as this can be in your control).

 

9. Surprise Him on Occasion

You will earn the “girlfriend of the year” award, if you sneak in a surprise here or there!

Our day-to–day functions can get boring and monotone, so he’ll love it when you plan a trip for an anniversary, or get tickets for a show and surprise him with it.

It can also be something much simpler, like cooking his favorite meal when he gets home, and giving him an unexpected massage after a long day’s work.

Everyone likes surprises that will get them out of their head and make them stop stressing for a while.

It’s easy: Surprise him regularly, and make it count! Think about what he would like, and reward him by giving him something that is not part of the daily routine.

 

10. Dress stunningly for Your weekly Date-Night

Obviously you don’t have to dress sexy in order to be noticed by him – he loves you regardless, but he will also be pleasantly surprised to see you in a hot outfit for the night!

As mentioned above, you should make an effort to have date-nights weekly, since this is your chance as a couple to bond and spend quality-time together.

When you go, get your nicest outfit from the closet and transform yourself as if you’d be going on a first date with him. He’ll notice, and absolutely love it!

It’s easy: Make plans with him, put some make-up on, and get your sexy ready for the evening.

 

11. Be the best Girlfriend by letting Him take charge during Sex

Sex is all about two people connecting and enjoying each other, and your satisfaction is equally important than his.

However, he’ll love to hear you say that he should take charge or pick what you’re going to do this time.

This doesn’t mean that you won’t like it, but only that you let him do the picking and taking control for once of the situation.

Even if you’re normally more dominant, for instance, give him that feeling of being the alpha male sometimes.

It’s easy: It means no work for you, so just let him take you wherever he wants you guys to go, and enjoy the ride. You might discover a new thing or two!

 

12. Stroke His Ego

This is cliché, yes, but still very relevant to today’s men.

Even the most modern of all guys will like to be complimented, cared for, and told how awesome he is.

You don’t have to do it every day, but the occasional “wow, you’re the smartest, babe” or “God, could you get any more delicious?” will make you stand out as a better girlfriend.

Be supportive and tell him directly whenever he does or says something great.

It’s easy: At times, talk to him like you would to a child (I know, but its true!): You’re doing great, keep going! You’ll motivate him and make him feel almighty.

 

13. Trust Him unconditionally

This one is a no-brainer, unless you have a solid reason to be suspicious.

Otherwise, trust him and don’t drive him away with unnecessary moments of jealousy.  Women tend to overreact sometimes, and get jealous quickly.

That’s ok if he’s acting weird and secretive, but don’t confront him about anything, or make a scene if he gives you no reason to doubt him.

Then all you do is put a wedge between you and your man.

Despite previous cheating that you might have experienced with other men, give him a chance to show you that not all men are the same.

It’s easy: Have some faith and trust him!

 

14. A simple “I love You”

Often times we overlook the smallest things, like saying “I love you”.

We assume that our partner knows it, especially after being together for a long time, so at times we forget to say it, or simply don’t bother with it anymore.

That’s wrong! In order to be an awesome girlfriend, say it often, and mean it.

It’s easy: Say “I love you” regularly, and shower him with affection alongside it.

 

15. How to be the best Girlfriend in a long-term Relationship

Above tips will certainly help you a great deal in knowing how to improve as a girlfriend in order to build an even stronger relationship with the man of your choice.

However, extraordinary situations may require additional skills being applied to make it work.

Such extraordinary situation is present in a long-term relationship. Read on to get some helpful tips on being a good girlfriend in a long-term relationship.

  • Make an extra Effort

Becoming a better girlfriend in a long-term relationship involves making an extra effort, going the extra mile, to stay in touch.

Do not let a long day at work get into the middle of your relationship but instead check in with him regularly.

Long-term relationships require the extra effort, so be honest with yourself and ask yourself regularly if you can honestly say you are going the extra mile to make it work.

  • Do not blame him if Text/Skype/Phone Dates don’t always fit his Schedule

Long-distance relationships require more patience than “normal” relationships. In particular, you may not always be aware of your partner’s schedule.

Hence, in a long-term relationship you also need to make an extra effort not to get upset or impatient with him if he ends up cancelling a “phone-date” that you had been looking forward to.

Rest assured that he dislikes the situation probably as much as you do and make sure to reschedule a new date right away.

  • Go on “remote Dates”

One way to do so is by watching a movie together. Easy enough done and what worked for Harry and Sally will surely not harm your relationship, either.

So check out the TV schedule or look for a Netflix movie that could be interesting for the both of you!

Moreover, it does not always have to be movies night. For example, if both of you enjoy cooking, you could simply cook (and then indulge in) your favorite meal together.

In times of video conferencing over Skype or iPhone / Android, very easy to do!

So where do you start?

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Does My Ex Want Me Back? TOP 5 Secret Signs he does!

Does My Ex Want Me Back? Here Are 5 Signs to Look For

‘Does my ex want me back’ is a question that’s on millions of women’s minds around the world. You had a great relationship that somehow took a turn for the worse, but now you’re wondering if there’s hope to get back together.

You don’t want to appear clingy and put all of your faith in something that won’t work, but you’d be surprised how often men secretly wish they could have the relationship back.

So, does your ex want you back? There’s no one way to know for sure, but we’ve identified 5 key signs men exhibit that could bring you hope for the future.

    1. You Still Talk

    2. They Ask About Your Dating Life

    3. They Play the Jealous Card

    4. They Chat About Everyday Life

    5. They Ask You to “Meet for a Drink”

  1. You Still Talk

First and foremost, if you two are still on a speaking basis, there is a small chance he might want you back. While many relationships end badly, with both sides refusing to speak to one another, whenever people are still in communication with their ex, there is hope for the future.

Exactly how much hope depends on these next few signals.

  1. They Ask About Your Dating Life

They could be asking just out of curiosity but many times, asking about someone’s dating life is a surefire sign that they’re interested in maybe getting back together. Don’t take this tip at face value and play it cool until you have confirmation of these next few signs.

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  1. They Play the Jealous Card

If you notice that their social media profiles are full of pictures of them having fun or bragging about their dating life, this might be a call for attention from you.

Also, if they are interested in your dating life and even seem to show signs that they’re jealous of your new lover, they might wish that they were still yours.

Further Readings: How to keep a Man interested and What to do when He pulls away

  1. They Chat About Everyday Life

If they’re still talking to you about everyday things such as problems at work or their family, there’s a good chance that they want you back. These are typical conversations that couples have—not strictly-casual friends.

Be careful here: don’t disclose all of your personal life to them if you aren’t really interested in them still. Let them do the talking and carefully listen.

  1. They Ask You to “Meet for a Drink”

You are still wondering ‘Does my ex want me back’? A typical sign that a man is romantically interested in a woman is to ask for a drink. It’s probably how you two got together in the first place! If he asks you this, play it cool.

It’s important to note that you aren’t forced to get back together with your ex in any case! Also, understand that you should only meet for a drink if you’re still interested in them.

Hopefully, these signals have been helpful for your situation. People break up and get back together all of the time, so there is a strong possibility you could be one of the lucky few.

Also interesting: Learn how to make someone fall in Love with You again

Relationship Blogs and Dating Blogs – The TOP 10 List

Our TOP 10 List of the best Relationship Blogs and Dating Blogs

Check out our Top 10 Relationship Blogs and Dating Blogs for the best available info and discussions on everything surrounding relationships, darting, love, sex and mental health.

We handpicked all of the following blogs and present them to you in no particular order – we believe they are all very informational, helpful, and … fun!

  1. Science of Relationships

  2. Sex and London City

  3. Baggage Reclaim

  4. The Last Honest Guy

  5. Blog With Benefits

  6. Surviving Dating

  7. My Pixie Blog

  8. The Urban Dater

  9. Dating Advice From a Girl

  10. Seriously Maybe

Also Read: Relationship Advice for Women

 

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1. Science of Relationships

Url: http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/

Author: Team of Relationship Scientists

About: Get relationship advice backed up by science and statistics. Science of Relationships is a good resource of anything related to sex, relationship and that most-talked about emotion – love! The authors behind the site are scientists, experts and professors in the relationship field. No, this is not the usual, full of jargon research website; all the articles are presented in a fun, simple and easy to understand manner.

 

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2. Sex and London City

Url: http://www.sexandlondoncity.co.uk/

Author: Nixalina

About: The author of this blog, Nixalina, launched Sex and London City as a beauty and fashion blog. But her perceptive and honest articles about relationships and dating gained her a cult following. Sex and London City is now one of the most popular of the UK’s relationship blogs and dating blogs. Nixalina’s unapologetic approach in showing the exciting and brutal reality of being a single woman looking for love catapulted her as a sex and dating expert. Her take on dating is both insightful and refreshing.

 

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3. Baggage Reclaim

Url: http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/

Author: Natalie Lue

About: If you’re in a rut or stuck in the complicated maze of dating, you definitely need someone like Natalie Lue. Baggage Reclaim is inasmuch special among the dating blogs and relationship blogs, as it aims to help people deal with their relationship baggage and gain back their confidence along the way. Emotional de-cluttering is the blog’s specialty. Browse its library of articles or take one of Natalie’s subscription-based courses.

 

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4. The Last Honest Guy

Url: http://www.thelasthonestguy.com/

Author: The Last Honest Guy

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: The Last Honest Guy is your go-to blog for uncensored advice and insights about men and relationships. If you are a woman confused about the guy you’re dating, you can ask questions and get unfiltered answers about what men really think. The articles and guides here are written from a man’s perspective, so it may not always coincide with how you think (if you’re a female), but hey, aren’t you curious about what really goes on in their heads, anyways?

 

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5. Blog With Benefits

Url: http://www.blogwithbenefits.com/

Author: Jessica Druck

About: From How To Tell You’re a Booty Call to How To Get Over Someone in The Age of Social Media – there’s plenty of relevant articles here to keep you busy. Like many relationship bloggers, Jessica started the ‘Blog With Benefits’ simply as a space to unload her thoughts and dating horror stories. Now Jessica is busy inspiring others and making people laugh through her posts on various social media sites.

Recommended Reading: Learn to make a Guy fall in Love with You

 

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6. Surviving Dating

Url: http://survivingdating.com/

Author: Deborrah Cooper (Ms. Heartbeat)

About: This blog is run by the irascible advise columnist, Ms. Heartbeat. Deborrah Cooper tackles a wide range of topics about love from dating pet peeves to texting rules for dating singles. Her blog posts are opinionated and insightful, and with over 20 years of experience in the relationship field, she knows how to handle any topic in a witty and hilarious way. Deborrah also writes for AskHeartBeat.com.

 

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7. My Pixie Blog

Url: http://mypixieblog.com/

Author: Charlotte

About: Charlotte founded My Pixie Blog in 2009 after the demise of her long-term relationship. It didn’t take long and the blog gained a number of avid readers in the busy world of relationship blogs and dating blogs. Charlotte discusses topics about letting go, speed dating, bachelorett- lifestyle and a lot more.

 

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8. The Urban Dater

Url: https://theurbandater.com/

Author: Alex Vasquez

About: This blog from Alex Vasquez covers various topics related to dating, sex, relationships and love. If you need to spice up your Match.com or Tinder profile, they offer online dating profile help and critique for a small fee. The Urban Dater’s articles cater to both men and women, so you’ll never feel left out.

 

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9. Dating Advice From a Girl

Url: http://datingadvicefromagirl.com/

Author: Midori Lei

About: As her blog’s tagline suggests (traditional relationship in a modern world), Midori holds time-honored values and beliefs in dating. She believes men should make the first move, and that sex isn’t just a physical act. Whether you share the same values with her or not, you’ll learn a thing or two from her self-written articles. She also does unique email and texting consultation if you need some love advice. A great resource!

 

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10. Seriously Maybe

Url: http://seriously-maybe.com/

Author: Marckens P. and Rey

About: Although the articles on Seriously Maybe are presented from a man’s perspective – the author, Mackens P., aims to give readers a different view on each gender from a psychological standpoint. It’s interesting to read about his take on controversial topics like ‘Why It’s Okay For a Man to Cheat and Not Okay for Women’. You may not necessarily like what you read, but the topics covered will open up a way for people to dig deep into the subjects and definitely get the conversation going.

Also Read: The TOP Online Relationship Advice Sites and our Relationship Coach Recommendations

Online Relationship Advice Sites – Our TOP 10 List

Online Relationship Advice Sites – Our TOP 10 of the most helpful Sites

When it comes to matters of the heart, it helps to have real people you can talk to and relate to. If you need an expert’s advice or just a space to vent out, check this compilation of our selected Top 10 online relationship advice sites out there.

  1. http://www.datingadvice.com/

  2. http://thecoupleconnection.net/

  3. http://www.yourtango.com/

  4. https://goodmenproject.com/

  5. http://www.anewmode.com/

  6. http://www.vixendaily.com/

  7. http://www.twoofus.org/

  8. https://youqueen.com/

  9. http://www.lovepanky.com/

  10. http://www.sheknows.com/

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1. http://www.datingadvice.com/

Tagline: One major authority on all things related to dating

Membership: Free (forum)

Site Offerings: This online relationship advice site features daily articles from dating and relationship experts and a lively forum with over 5,000 registered users. You can find a bunch of almost everything here – dating site reviews, research studies, industry news and a relationship advice forum.

 

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2. http://thecoupleconnection.net/

Tagline: Where couples work it out

Membership: Free

Site Offerings: The Couple Connection is a free online relationship advice site created and operated by OnePlusOne, a leading relationship support charity and research organization in the UK.

The Couple Connection’s relationship advice aims to empower couples to work on their relationships. The site offers a wide range of articles, quizzes, activities and self-assessment tools to help you improve and strengthen your relationship. If you want relationship advice from trained counselors or if you just feel like you need someone to talk to, check out The Listening Room.

 

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3. http://www.yourtango.com/

Tagline: The leading online magazine dedicated to love and relationships

Membership: Free

Site Offerings: A collection of affirming stories, thoughtful opinions and perspectives, expert advice and shareable lists from diverse voices.

The site features a free-to-register community where you can connect with other members, comment on stories and get invited for future events. You will find a variety of interesting and helpful posts about dating, men, and celebrities.

 

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4. https://goodmenproject.com

Tagline: The conversation no one else is having

Membership: Annual Platinum, Annual Gold, and Annual Bronze with fees varying from around $5.- to $50.- / year

Site Offerings: The Good Men Project was founded in 2009 as a collection of stories about defining moments in a man’s life. It quickly grew into a multi-faceted media company and a social platform where anyone can participate in conversations about  how men’s roles are changing in modern life.

The site offers plenty of insightful articles about dating, marriage, ethics, raising kids, gender and sexuality that both men and women can greatly benefit from. Registering for annual memberships gives you access to special features and privileges but all articles from the site are free for everyone.

 

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5. http://www.anewmode.com/

Tagline: Everything you want to know about relationships, love, and about why men act the way they do

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: The site contains unique relationship articles and an advice forum to help women understand men, love and relationships. The have a dedicated forum where you can ask for relationship advice, and you don’t need to sign up or have an account to post. Visit their Facebook fan page with almost 60,000 likes for daily inspiration and tips.

 

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6. http://www.vixendaily.com/

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: The site’s mission is to veer away from the typical, run-of-the-mill advice that other relationship sites offer. Rather, the site focuses on providing mind-reading quizzes, articles and advice tailored to your particular needs. The site doesn’t just offer great guidance on dating and relationship but also on a variety of issues that women face.

 

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7. http://www.twoofus.org

Tagline: Great relationships don’t happen automatically

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: Two of Us was founded as a project of the National Healthy Marriage Resource Center (NHMRC). There are plenty of relationship articles and tips for parents as well as for dating- and married- couples. Find out your and your partner’s relationship style by taking the Heart Chart quiz.

 

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8. https://youqueen.com/

Tagline: Live like a Queen, together with YouQueen!

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: YouQueen is a women’s online lifestyle magazine that provides various articles and tips about beauty, fashion, travel, food, sex and dating. The site was launched in 2012 and aims to become the #1 online destination for women. They feature various authors and contributors from around the entire world.

 

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http://www.lovepanky.com/

Tagline: Your guide to better love and relationships

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: Love Panky provides plenty of resources  about flirting, dating, sex, love and self-improvement – offering different contents for men and women. From dating ideas to sexual fantasies, they got everything covered here. No membership is required, but you can join their Facebook community for more updated reads about love and relationship.

 

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http://www.sheknows.com

Tagline: Women inspiring women

Membership: N/A

Site Offerings: She Knows is a lifestyle digital media company that provides daily updates about various topics – catering to women of all ages. You can read about pop culture, food, parenting, sex, dating and a lot more. Stay updated and don’t miss the current trends by liking their Facebook fan page.  Be one of their 600,000+ readers.

Summary – Our Top 10 Online Relationship Advice Sites

We hope you liked our selection of these online relationship resources. If you are looking for more online love and relationship advice, check out these love graphic and relationship info-graphics as well as our Top 10 list of some of the best female relationship coaches out there.

Further Reading: Learn How to make a Man love You

Love Graphics and Relationship Infographics – Top 7 List

Love Graphics and Relationship Infographics – Our Top 7 List

Good love graphics and relationship info-graphics are a beautiful way to explain all kinds of things related to love and relationships in simplified, easy to understand ways. While it is virtually impossible to evaluate or even examine all the info-graphics available nowadays on this topic, we comprised some of the most appealing and useful love graphics / infographics for you.

We believe they are all fantastic peaces of art with a high degree of information conveyed, and give a good idea of the wide variety of information that can be conveyed with the use of infographics on the topic of relationships and love.

  1. What is The Ultimate Commitment?

  2. The Science Behind a Happy Relationship

  3. Did Dating Die With The Millennials?

  4. What’s Your Relationship Status?

  5. The Science of Love

  6. Why Long Distance Relationship Can Work

  7. The Cost of Love

The graphics are listed in no particular order, we believe they are all simply fantastic, so … Enjoy!
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1. What is The Ultimate Commitment?

Site/Link: Science of Relationships

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: A research conducted by the Loving Lab and ScienceOfRelationships.com explores the 7 displays of commitment according to engaged and recently married individuals.

Even though the desire to get married has declined for the new generation, it’s still viewed as the expression of ultimate commitment. Learn about the six others that got included in the list.

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2. The Science Behind a Happy Relationship

Site/Link: Happify

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: There is really no secret to a happy relationship. It’s a case to case basis, isn’t it? But, according to the Happify team, science can, at least, explain how to make relationships work and how any couples can enjoy a life together.

Sweet. Spend at least 5 hours or more each week talking or just being with each other. That’s one tip from below Happify love graphic / relationship infographic.

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3. Love Graphics – Did Dating Die With The Millennials?

Site/Link: Free Dating

Follow:  Facebook and Twitter

About: Finding romance has changed over the generations. It seems like dating has almost died since the advent of social media and the rise of the millennials.

Is the dating trend really far from what it used to be? Find out through this relationship infographic, created by the folks from freedating.co.uk.

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4. What’s Your Relationship Status?

Site/Link: Shea Strauss (We Love Dates)

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: Your new relationship keeps you going in circles? You are confused about where you stand in this relationship, but you are reluctant to ask?

It’s still best to get the answer from the person in question, but if you just don’t have the guts, this hilarious infographic will help you analyze your current relationship status. Prepare some tissues.

Further Reading: How can you get a Guy to commit?

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5. The Science of Love

Site/Link: My Breast

Follow:  Facebook, Twitter

About: The team behind MyBreast.org created this interesting info-graphic that explains the science behind falling in love, including what’s going on in our brains and our bodies during the process.

This cute – looking love graphics / relationship info-graphic is based on the premise that certain chemicals and hormones in the body guide us through the different stages of love, according to this info-graphic.

Also Read: How can you make a Guy fall for you?

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6. Why Long Distance Relationship Can Work

Site/Link: Chris Martin (Love My Brit)

Follow:  Facebook, Twitter

About: If you’re in a long-distance relationship or thinking of getting into one, this love info-graphic is for you. There’s a lot of online posts out there on the world wide web as to why this kind of relationship doesn’t work, so it’s refreshing to see a different take on the subject.

The information here was based strictly on statistics. You can keep your hopes high.

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7. The Cost of Love 

Site/Link: Retail Me Not

Follow: Facebook, Twitter

About: Retail Me Not’s infographic explores the true ‘cost’ of love. It shows what couples are willing to spend on dates and Valentines day gifts, as well as who should really pay on first dates. The answers may surprise you.

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Further Reading: Our Top 10 Relationship Coach List