Tips on how to make a guy miss you – 10 Ways to make him long for you
Do you want to know how to make a guy miss you more when the two of you are not together? It may be just a petty fight between the two of you, or it may be as serious as a breakup. Or he may be taking you for granted, and you’re sick of it.
No matter what the reason is, a guy will miss you if he’s given a chance.
There are more than enough ways to make yourself irresistible to your man, but here are 10 surefire ways on how to make a guy miss you:
Don’t give him a Call or connect with him
Give him and yourself some Space
Leave Something of yours behind
Have a lot of Self-control
Be out of his Sight for Weeks
Call and say good Night
Show emotional Stability
Have a Hobby
Do not be a ‘Yes’ Woman
1. Don’t give him a Call or connect with him
You need him to feel your absence and if you call him or connect with him in any way that purpose is defeated. Even if you want to tell him that he means nothing to you or that he’s going to regret his decision, don’t. Don’t involve emotions and it will have the right impact.
2. Give him and yourself some Space
Do not be around each other too much. If he gets to see you every single hour of every single day, then nothing in this article about how to make a guy miss you more will help you. Be there when your man needs you, but don’t be too clingy.
3. Leave Something of yours behind
Leave something of yours strategically behind. It’s one of the best ways to serve as a reminder of you.
Be naughty or nice, the choice is yours…a single earring form a pair, a set of keys, the book you have been reading or lingerie…all serve as warm reminders that make a man miss you and make him look forward to meeting you again.
4. Have a lot of Self-control
The moment you have decided to stop being needy, you should also have to make sure you gain a lot of self-control. This is the only way that you won’t lose focus of you goal – which is to make him miss you.
If you are having a hard time stopping yourself from clinging to your man, then share your goal (to have self-control) with some of your friends. These people will serve as your anchor each time you’re itching to contact your man.
5. Be out of his Sight for Weeks
One thing you can do is to not show yourself to him. Make him wonder where you are after a few days of not seeing you. It wouldn’t come as a surprise that he’d be calling you just to make sure you’re alright.
And the next time he sees you, he might just jump with joy and give you an I-miss-you-so-much hug.
6. Call and say good Night
You wonder how to make a guy fall in love with you? At the end of the day give him a call and simply say “good night”. People are loneliest at night, and this gesture of yours will warm his heart and make him want to be with you even more.
7. Show emotional Stability
There are many things that can drive your man away. Being too emotional or childish are two of them. Men need to be around people who are fun and emotionally stimulating in a positive way. This is why he goes out and hangs with his friends as soon as the two of you fight.
8. Have a Hobby
Give yourself time to engage in fun activities and the things you love doing. If you want your man to miss you, make him see that you’re doing well enough when he’s not around.
9. Control yourself
It is normal for a lady to be expressive, particularly with regards to her feelings for the person she loves. Let him know that you cherish him and that you miss him, but don’t go saying it every time you get the chance.
When he feels that you’re holding back, he will make an effort to spend some quality time with you.
10. Do not be a ‘Yes’ Woman
Every once in a while, say ‘no’ to your guy. Has he invited you for a last-minute date? Don’t go. Is he calling you after a long while of ignoring you? Don’t pick up. Do not be his doormat. Play hard to get, and he will try, try and try to get you.
Further Reading: How to make a Guy like You